Word of the Week - Influence

“In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” - Matthew 5:16

As spouses, parents/grandparents, friends, colleagues, and leaders each of us has influence—whether we realize it or not. Influence isn’t reserved for people with big titles, fame, or large followings; it’s simply the effect our lives have on others.  We all have influence. Early in my career, I viewed influence through the lens of success, leadership, and persuasion. But as I’ve grown in my walk with Jesus, I’ve come to understand that true, lasting influence comes from character, consistency, and Christ-likeness. Our greatest influence doesn’t come from what we achieve but from how we live. Our day to day lives tell the real story of who we are on the inside, and over time can become a meaningful force of influence, especially within our sphere of influence.  People are watching how we treat others, handle adversity, and honor God in our daily conduct.

Influence is the ability to shape the thoughts, actions, and beliefs of others through our example. For followers of Jesus, influence is not about control or status—it’s about impact. God calls us to be salt and light in the world (Matthew 5:13–16), living in such a way that our actions reflect His character and draw others toward Him. Authentic Christian influence flows from integrity, humility, and a heart surrendered to Christ.

Principles of Godly Influence:

• Influence Flows from Integrity

  Integrity is the foundation of influence. People are not moved by our words alone—they’re shaped by the consistency of our walk. When our private life matches our public message, our example carries spiritual weight. As Proverbs reminds us, “The righteous lead blameless lives; blessed are their children after them.” (Proverbs 20:7). Integrity builds trust, and trust multiplies influence.

• Influence Is Fueled by Love and Service
  Jesus turned the world upside down by influencing others through love and service. Leadership in God’s Kingdom looks like humility, not hierarchy. When we serve others with genuine care, people see Jesus through us. “For even the Son of Man came not to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.” (Mark 10:45). Every act of kindness, forgiveness, and generosity extends God’s influence through us.

• Influence Multiplies Through Example
  Our lives are living testimonies that ripple through families, businesses, and communities. People rarely remember sermons they hear, but they remember the life they see. When we live with joy, integrity, and peace in Christ, it becomes contagious. Paul reminded the Corinthians, “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.” (1 Corinthians 11:1). Our faithfulness today may be the spark that ignites faith in someone else tomorrow.

Jesus is the ultimate influencer—not through fame or power, but through love, sacrifice, and obedience. His influence changed the world and continues to shape hearts through those who follow Him. When we live as His ambassadors, we extend His Kingdom one relationship at a time. God’s design is that our everyday lives—our families, our work, our leadership—be the stage upon which His light shines.

Challenge Question: Who is your sphere of influence?  Who within this sphere is God calling you to intentionally impact this week—by your words, example, or quiet act of love?

Closing Prayer: Lord, thank You for calling us to be Your light in the world. Help us to live with integrity, humility, and love so that our lives reflect Your goodness. May our influence draw others to You and multiply Your Kingdom through how we live, lead, and serve. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

I pray we have a week of shining brightly and influencing others for Christ!