Word of the Week - Servant Leadership

“For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.” Mark 10:45

This week was a special one at Founders. We celebrated a “rite of passage” for three of our young leaders as they signed the Servant Leadership Pledge—a symbol of their next step in becoming leaders who serve with humility, courage, and purpose. Moments like this remind us and reinforce why we established our firm’s purpose years ago:

“To be Servant Leaders who value Relationships and Results.”

We believe the way we realize our long-term vision—to become the Gold Standard M&A Advisory Firm in our industry, the Chick-fil-A of our space—is by embedding Servant Leadership at the core of who we are and how we operate every day. It’s not just a leadership philosophy; it’s a way of living, modeled perfectly by Jesus Himself.

What Is Servant Leadership - Servant Leadership is a philosophy where the leader is a servant first—someone who leads by lifting others. It starts with a conviction to serve before leading, to prioritize and care for our team with full clarity, commitment, and alignment (shared fate) towards attaining our company’s stated Vision.  It is counter to traditional leadership models but completely aligned with the heart of Christ. As Paul reminds us, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.” (Philippians 2:3–4)

Principles of Servant Leadership

• It’s Not About Me—It’s About Something Greater
  Servant Leadership begins with purpose towards a higher calling. We are not serving ourselves, our egos, or even just our teams—we are serving God’s greater mission. When we lead with this perspective, we find deep meaning in our work and joy in seeing others succeed. Every act of service becomes an act of worship. We are serving God by serving His people and the vision He’s entrusted to us.  “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.” Colossians 3:24-24

• We Grow When We Help Others Grow
  A true servant leader measures success not by personal advancement but by the growth of those they lead. When we focus on helping others reach their full potential—emotionally, intellectually, relationally, and spiritually—we not only build stronger teams but we ourselves are transformed. The test of a Servant Leader is simple: Are the people I lead becoming healthier, wiser, freer, and more capable of serving others?  “A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.” Proverbs 11:25

• It Is Motivated by Love—And Love Requires Sacrifice
  At the heart of Servant Leadership is love—sacrificial love that puts others first even when it costs us something. In business, often love means holding others accountable, confronting hard truths, and calling people to a higher standard. Servant Leadership isn’t soft—it’s sacred. It’s the higher and harder calling. To lead this way requires courage, patience, and a deep love that reflects Christ’s own sacrifice for us.  “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” John 15:12-13

Personal Reflection - As I’ve grown in leadership, I’ve come to realize that Servant Leadership is both the most challenging and the most rewarding calling there is. It forces me to check my motives daily, to slow down enough to listen, and to place people above results—trusting that the right results always follow. It also reminds me that leadership is not about titles or authority; it’s about influence, humility, and love in action.

I’m grateful to walk this journey alongside a team that’s committed to this higher standard. I believe with all my heart that if we remain faithful to this calling—to serve first and lead second (Abide & Lead) — God will continue to bless our firm, our families, and the Kingdom work we’ve been entrusted with.

Challenge Question:  Who can we intentionally serve this week—putting their growth, needs, or success above our own—and in doing so, reflect the heart of Christ in our leadership?

Closing Prayer:  Father, thank You for sending Jesus as the perfect example of a Servant Leader. Give us the strength and wisdom to lead with humility, courage, and love. Help us to see every opportunity, conversation, and challenge as a chance to serve You by serving others. May our leadership bring glory to Your name and build a culture where people thrive and You are honored. In Jesus’ name, Amen!

Have a great week of leading by serving—putting others first and advancing God’s Kingdom through how you love and lead!

Word of the Week - Health

“Nevertheless, I will bring health and healing to it; I will heal my people and will let them enjoy abundant peace and security.” Jeremiah 33:6

Health is one of God’s greatest blessings and it reflects His desire for His people to live in wholeness and peace. As I reflected on this verse, I was reminded that God’s plan for health and healing is not limited to the physical—it includes every part of who we are: spirit, soul, and body. Throughout Scripture, we see God as the Restorer, the Healer, the One who takes what is broken and makes it whole.

Over the past 24 plus years that I have walked with Jesus, I’ve come to realize that true health is a reflection of our alignment and connection to God. When we are spiritually connected to Him, peace flows into our emotional, relational and physical well-being. When we drift from that connection, stress, anxiety, and weariness often follow. God desires His children to walk in balance and harmony—physically strong, emotionally steady, and spiritually anchored in Him.  When I surrendered by heart to Jesus 24 years ago, I was broken and unhealthy in almost every area of my life.  My physical health was mediocre, my financial situation was poor, most of my relationships were strained and fractured, I was dealing with bouts of anxiety and depression, not to mention I really didn’t even know what true peace felt like.  That all changed in a major way when I surrendered my life and heart to Jesus.  The Lord began a restorative work in me that has continued steadily for the past 24 years.  I can honestly testify that today at 57, I am more whole and healthy than I have ever been in my life and I can attribute all of this to my abiding relationship with Jesus and how He has transformed and renewed every aspect of my life. “Therefore outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.” 2 Corinthians 4:16

Health and healing from God’s perspective are holistic—wholeness that begins in the heart and extends to every part of life. As 3 John 1:2 says, “Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well.” God wants us to flourish in all areas so that we can serve Him fully and reflect His glory to others.  I am not saying that if we are abiding followers of Christ we will not get sick or have any health issues; the truth is that we live in a fallen world with sin and disease and we are subject to these things just as non-believers.  What I am saying is that God’s plan for us is health and healing in the here and now, but most importantly in the life to come for eternity!

Principles of God’s Healing and Wholeness:

• Spiritual Health – Healing Begins in the Heart
  Our relationship with God is the foundation of all healing. Sin and spiritual distance create brokenness, but forgiveness restores peace and wholeness. When our spirit is aligned with God, we begin to experience healing in every other area of life. “Praise the Lord, my soul, and forget not all his benefits—who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases.” (Psalm 103:2–3)

• Emotional Health – Peace for the Mind and Soul
  Emotional healing comes as we surrender our anxieties, worries, and fears to God. His presence brings calm to the chaos. In a world filled with stress and noise, peace becomes the greatest sign of health. God promises that His peace will guard our hearts and minds when we bring everything to Him in prayer. “Do not be anxious about anything... And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:6–7)

• Physical Health – God as Our Healer and Sustainer
  God cares about our physical health and invites us to trust Him as our healer. He gives wisdom for how we care for our bodies—His temple—and promises to strengthen and sustain us. When we walk in obedience and dependence on Him, we can experience His supernatural power and natural provision for health.  We are called to be good stewards of our bodies as they are the temple of God’s spirit within us.  How we train and treat our bodies does matter. “For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come” 1 Timothy 4:8

Jesus is the ultimate picture of God’s healing power. Everywhere He went, He brought restoration—opening blind eyes, forgiving sins, calming storms, and healing hearts. His mission was holistic redemption: to make us whole again. The cross was not just about saving souls—it was about restoring all that sin had fractured. As Isaiah 53:5 declares, “By His wounds we are healed.” When we abide in Him, His healing presence flows through every part of our being.

Challenge Question: Where in your life do you need God’s healing touch today—spiritually, emotionally, or physically—and how can you invite His healing power into your area of need?

Closing Prayer: Father, thank You that You are Jehovah Rapha—the Lord who heals. Thank You for caring about every part of our lives. Heal our hearts where they are wounded, restore peace to our minds where we are anxious, and strengthen our bodies where we are weary. Help us to walk in wholeness and reflect Your restoring power to others. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

I pray we have a week filled with God’s peace, strength, and restoring health in Christ!

Word of the Week - Gentleness

“Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.” - Philippians 4:5

Gentleness is often misunderstood in our culture, especially by leaders. Many equate it with weakness or passivity, but biblically, gentleness means power under restraint—strength that’s submitted to the control of the Holy Spirit. It is self-controlled strength expressed through humility, kindness, and grace toward others.

In my own journey, gentleness has been one of the hardest fruits of the Spirit to grow. By nature, I’m driven, focused, and direct—traits that can serve well in leadership and business in the formative years, but can easily overshadow sensitivity and care. Over the years, the Lord has patiently shaped this area in me. I’m not where I want to be, but by His grace, I’m far from where I used to be. I’ve learned that true strength is not found in forcefulness or urgency, but in calm, patient restraint. Gentleness reflects God’s heart—it’s how Jesus leads us, and how we are called to lead others.

Gentleness is a Christlike posture of strength under control. It’s choosing to respond with care, even when you have the power or right to be harsh. As Galatians 5:22 reminds us, it’s a fruit of the Spirit—evidence that our lives are yielded to God.

Principles of Growing in Gentleness

• Awareness – Gentleness Flows from God’s Presence
  The more aware we are of God’s Spirit within us, the more gentle our approach becomes. We carry His light in fragile jars of clay, which reminds us to treat others with care. Gentleness is the byproduct of closeness with Jesus. “For God, who said, ‘Let light shine out of darkness,’ made His light shine in our hearts… But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us.” (2 Corinthians 4:6–7)

• Security – Gentleness Is the Language of the Secure
  When we know who we are in Christ, we don’t need to dominate or prove ourselves. Insecurity shouts; security listens. A gentle person operates from peace, not pride. Our tone changes when we rest in our identity as sons and daughters of God. “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” (Proverbs 15:1)
  “For He chose us in Him before the creation of the world… In love He predestined us for adoption to sonship.” (Ephesians 1:4–5)

• Forgiveness – Gentleness Is the Fruit of Grace
  Gentleness is the outward expression of a forgiven heart. Because we’ve received grace, we extend grace. Even when we’re wronged, we restore others with compassion, not condemnation. True gentleness reflects the cross—strength restrained by love.  “Brothers, if anyone is caught in any sin, you who are spiritual should restore that person gently.” (Galatians 6:1)  “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” (Ephesians 4:2)

Gentleness doesn’t mean avoiding truth—it means delivering truth with love. Jesus was both the Lion and the Lamb: strong, yet tender; bold, yet compassionate. When we walk in gentleness, we mirror His heart to a harsh and hurried world.

Challenge Question:  Where in your life or leadership do you need to slow down, soften your tone, or extend grace so that your gentleness is evident to all?

Closing Prayer:  Father, thank You for the example of Jesus, who leads us with strength and gentleness. Teach us to walk in humility and grace, even when it’s difficult. Help us to be aware of Your Spirit within us, secure in who we are in You, and quick to extend the same forgiveness You’ve given us. May our lives reflect Your gentleness in every interaction this week. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Have a week of strength under control—leading with humility, grace, and the gentleness of Christ!

Word of the Week - Holy (Set apart for His purpose)

“But just as He who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; for it is written: ‘Be holy, because I am holy.”  - 1 Peter 1:15–16

This weekend I attended the “Made for More” conference presented by Triumph of Hope Ministries.  Best selling Author John Bevere spoke on Friday evening about Holiness and the reality that we can only expect God’s manifest presence and power in our lives if we walk in Holiness.  Holiness is a requirement for God’s presence.  It was a powerful message from his recent book Awe of God, that emphasizes the need for believers to have a healthy fear of God.

As I’ve reflected on what it means to live a holy life, I’ve been reminded that holiness isn’t about perfection—it’s about being set apart. To be holy means to live with a heart that is fully devoted to God and aligned with His purpose. In a world that constantly pulls us toward compromise, comfort, and conformity, God calls us to something higher—to live distinct, intentional, and surrendered lives that reflect His character.  In the book of Titus, Chapter 1, Saint Paul talks about what a leader (elder/overseer) in the church should demonstrate in how they live.  “He must be hospitable, one who loves what is good, who is self-controlled, upright, holy and disciplined.”  Titus 1:8

When I look back over my 24-year journey with Jesus, I can see seasons where I tried to live for God but still wanted to keep control of certain areas of my life. As I mature in my walk with Jesus, I realize that the abundant life comes through full surrender. Holiness is about who we belong to and being fully committed to the Lord, and in our love and healthy fear of God living our lives in a way that is pleasing to the Father.  When our hearts are set apart for God, our actions, attitudes, and leadership begin to reflect His nature in every area of our lives to include our marriage, family, business, ministry, recreation, and community.

Holiness means to be “set apart” for God’s use. It is the process of aligning our lives with His character and purposes so that everything we do reflects His nature. To be holy is to live differently because we belong to a different Kingdom. It’s not about self-righteousness—it’s about surrender. True holiness flows from intimacy with God, not religious effort.

Principles of a Holy Life

• Be Set Apart for God’s Purpose
  Holiness begins with belonging. When we understand that our lives, time, and resources are not our own but His, it changes how we live. Like utensils set apart for a special use, God calls us to be vessels that honor Him.  To be set apart we need to remember that even though we live in the world we are not of the world.  As followers of Christ and especially leaders set apart for His special purpose; our lives and how we live (our behavior) should look very different then those around us who are not walking with Jesus. “Those who cleanse themselves… will be instruments for special purposes, made holy, useful to the Master and prepared to do any good work.” (2 Timothy 2:21)

• Pursue Purity of Heart and Mind
  Holiness starts on the inside. It’s about cultivating integrity, humility, and purity in our thoughts, motives, and desires. The more time we spend with God, the more His Spirit refines and transforms us. The goal is not perfection but progress—a daily choice to let Him purify our hearts.  What we allow into our hearts and minds impacts our purity.  We must guard our hearts and minds from the pollution of this world, especially what we consume through our eyes and ears in the media!
  “Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.” (Psalm 51:10)

• Live Distinctly in the World but Not of It
  God calls us to stand out, not to blend in. Holiness is countercultural—it’s living by Kingdom values in a world driven by self-interest. We are called to be light in darkness and truth in confusion. Our holiness is meant to influence, not isolate.  This can only be accomplished by connecting to the vine of Christ daily so we are transformed from the inside out into the likeness of Jesus.
  “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” (Romans 12:2)

Jesus modeled holiness perfectly—not through distance or judgment, but through love and obedience. He was both approachable and pure, full of grace and truth. The more we abide in Him, the more we reflect His holiness. Holiness is not about separating ourselves from the world—it’s about being set apart for God so that the world sees Him through us.  “Holy, holy, holy is the Lod Almighty; the whole earth is full of His Glory” Isaiah 6:3

Challenge Question:
What area of your life is God asking you to set apart for His purpose—to make holy and fully devoted to Him this week?  What specific thing in your life do you need to fully surrender to God and sacrifice.  What is your Isaac?

Closing Prayer:
Father, thank You for calling us to live holy and set-apart lives. Help us to walk in purity, integrity, and full devotion to You. Refine our hearts, renew our minds, and make us vessels useful for Your purpose.  May our lives reflect Your holiness in how we live, love, and lead. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

As we walk in Holiness this week, I pray we experience the manifest presence and power of God in our lives for His Glory!!!

Word of the Week - Health

“Nevertheless, I will bring health and healing to it; I will heal my people and will let them enjoy abundant peace and security.” - Jeremiah 33:6

Health is one of God’s greatest blessings and it reflects His desire for His people to live in wholeness and peace. As I reflected on this verse, I was reminded that God’s plan for health and healing is not limited to the physical—it includes every part of who we are: spirit, soul, and body. Throughout Scripture, we see God as the Restorer, the Healer, the One who takes what is broken and makes it whole.

Over the past 24 plus years that I have walked with Jesus, I’ve come to realize that true health is a reflection of our alignment and connection to God. When we are spiritually connected to Him, peace flows into our emotional, relational and physical well-being. When we drift from that connection, stress, anxiety, and weariness often follow. God desires His children to walk in balance and harmony—physically strong, emotionally steady, and spiritually anchored in Him.  When I surrendered by heart to Jesus 24 years ago, I was broken and unhealthy in almost every area of my life.  My physical health was mediocre, my financial situation was poor, most of my relationships were strained and fractured, I was dealing with bouts of anxiety and depression, not to mention I really didn’t even know what true peace felt like.  That all changed in a major way when I surrendered my life and heart to Jesus.  The Lord began a restorative work in me that has continued steadily for the past 24 years.  I can honestly testify that today at 57, I am more whole and healthy than I have ever been in my life and I can attribute all of this to my abiding relationship with Jesus and how He has transformed and renewed every aspect of my life. “Therefore outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.” 2 Corinthians 4:16

Health and healing from God’s perspective are holistic—wholeness that begins in the heart and extends to every part of life. As 3 John 1:2 says, “Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well.” God wants us to flourish in all areas so that we can serve Him fully and reflect His glory to others.  I am not saying that if we are abiding followers of Christ we will not get sick or have any health issues; the truth is that we live in a fallen world with sin and disease and we are subject to these things just as non-believers.  What I am saying is that God’s plan for us is health and healing in the here and now, but most importantly in the life to come for eternity!

Principles of God’s Healing and Wholeness:

• Spiritual Health – Healing Begins in the Heart
  Our relationship with God is the foundation of all healing. Sin and spiritual distance create brokenness, but forgiveness restores peace and wholeness. When our spirit is aligned with God, we begin to experience healing in every other area of life. “Praise the Lord, my soul, and forget not all his benefits—who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases.” (Psalm 103:2–3)

• Emotional Health – Peace for the Mind and Soul
  Emotional healing comes as we surrender our anxieties, worries, and fears to God. His presence brings calm to the chaos. In a world filled with stress and noise, peace becomes the greatest sign of health. God promises that His peace will guard our hearts and minds when we bring everything to Him in prayer. “Do not be anxious about anything... And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:6–7)

• Physical Health – God as Our Healer and Sustainer
  God cares about our physical health and invites us to trust Him as our healer. He gives wisdom for how we care for our bodies—His temple—and promises to strengthen and sustain us. When we walk in obedience and dependence on Him, we can experience His supernatural power and natural provision for health.  We are called to be good stewards of our bodies as they are the temple of God’s spirit within us.  How we train and treat our bodies does matter. “For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come” 1 Timothy 4:8

Jesus is the ultimate picture of God’s healing power. Everywhere He went, He brought restoration—opening blind eyes, forgiving sins, calming storms, and healing hearts. His mission was holistic redemption: to make us whole again. The cross was not just about saving souls—it was about restoring all that sin had fractured. As Isaiah 53:5 declares, “By His wounds we are healed.” When we abide in Him, His healing presence flows through every part of our being.

Challenge Question: Where in your life do you need God’s healing touch today—spiritually, emotionally, or physically—and how can you invite His healing power into your area of need?

Closing Prayer: Father, thank You that You are Jehovah Rapha—the Lord who heals. Thank You for caring about every part of our lives. Heal our hearts where they are wounded, restore peace to our minds where we are anxious, and strengthen our bodies where we are weary. Help us to walk in wholeness and reflect Your restoring power to others. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

I pray we have a week filled with God’s peace, strength, and restoring health in Christ!

Word of the Week - Influence

“In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” - Matthew 5:16

As spouses, parents/grandparents, friends, colleagues, and leaders each of us has influence—whether we realize it or not. Influence isn’t reserved for people with big titles, fame, or large followings; it’s simply the effect our lives have on others.  We all have influence. Early in my career, I viewed influence through the lens of success, leadership, and persuasion. But as I’ve grown in my walk with Jesus, I’ve come to understand that true, lasting influence comes from character, consistency, and Christ-likeness. Our greatest influence doesn’t come from what we achieve but from how we live. Our day to day lives tell the real story of who we are on the inside, and over time can become a meaningful force of influence, especially within our sphere of influence.  People are watching how we treat others, handle adversity, and honor God in our daily conduct.

Influence is the ability to shape the thoughts, actions, and beliefs of others through our example. For followers of Jesus, influence is not about control or status—it’s about impact. God calls us to be salt and light in the world (Matthew 5:13–16), living in such a way that our actions reflect His character and draw others toward Him. Authentic Christian influence flows from integrity, humility, and a heart surrendered to Christ.

Principles of Godly Influence:

• Influence Flows from Integrity

  Integrity is the foundation of influence. People are not moved by our words alone—they’re shaped by the consistency of our walk. When our private life matches our public message, our example carries spiritual weight. As Proverbs reminds us, “The righteous lead blameless lives; blessed are their children after them.” (Proverbs 20:7). Integrity builds trust, and trust multiplies influence.

• Influence Is Fueled by Love and Service
  Jesus turned the world upside down by influencing others through love and service. Leadership in God’s Kingdom looks like humility, not hierarchy. When we serve others with genuine care, people see Jesus through us. “For even the Son of Man came not to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.” (Mark 10:45). Every act of kindness, forgiveness, and generosity extends God’s influence through us.

• Influence Multiplies Through Example
  Our lives are living testimonies that ripple through families, businesses, and communities. People rarely remember sermons they hear, but they remember the life they see. When we live with joy, integrity, and peace in Christ, it becomes contagious. Paul reminded the Corinthians, “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.” (1 Corinthians 11:1). Our faithfulness today may be the spark that ignites faith in someone else tomorrow.

Jesus is the ultimate influencer—not through fame or power, but through love, sacrifice, and obedience. His influence changed the world and continues to shape hearts through those who follow Him. When we live as His ambassadors, we extend His Kingdom one relationship at a time. God’s design is that our everyday lives—our families, our work, our leadership—be the stage upon which His light shines.

Challenge Question: Who is your sphere of influence?  Who within this sphere is God calling you to intentionally impact this week—by your words, example, or quiet act of love?

Closing Prayer: Lord, thank You for calling us to be Your light in the world. Help us to live with integrity, humility, and love so that our lives reflect Your goodness. May our influence draw others to You and multiply Your Kingdom through how we live, lead, and serve. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

I pray we have a week of shining brightly and influencing others for Christ!

Word of the Week - Authenticity

“But He said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.” - 2 Corinthians 12:9

In my formative years much of my training came through culture, mentors, sports, the military, and business school. These environments taught me to be tough, strong, and guarded—not vulnerable. Authenticity was not valued. But over the past 24 years of walking with Jesus and other believers, I’ve learned the power of authenticity. When I began embracing it, I found freedom, integrity, identity, and abundance. My relationship with Christ—and with those closest to me—compels me toward living authentically.

Authenticity means being the same on the inside as we are on the outside. It is living true to our identity, values, and beliefs regardless of outside pressures. Authenticity asks: Am I the same person at church, at work, at the lodge, and at home? Do my actions align with my words? Do I confess and own my weaknesses instead of hiding them? Authenticity is not perfection—it is truthfulness, consistency, and vulnerability.

Principles of Authentic Living

• Know Who You Are in Christ
  True authenticity begins with identity. Before I surrendered my life to Jesus, I was always trying to figure out who I was or who I wanted to be like. But when I realized God created me uniquely in His image, it was life-changing. We are called to be the best version of ourselves in Christ. “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” (Psalm 139:14)

• Embrace Your Humanness
  Authenticity doesn’t hide flaws—it acknowledges them. As we grow in Christ, He frees us from past sins while also exposing new areas for refinement. That’s how transformation works. Jesus is made strong in our weakness. Admitting our struggles and seeking forgiveness makes us real before God and others. “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?” (Matthew 7:3)

• Pursue Authentic Relationships
  We were created to live authentically in community. Real growth happens when we open our lives to trusted friends who can speak truth, encourage us, and help us see blind spots. Authenticity requires humility and trust, but it leads to growth and strength. “Two are better than one…If either of them falls down, one can help the other up…A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” (Ecclesiastes 4:9–12)

God calls us to authenticity because He is authentic with us. He knows us fully—our strengths, flaws, and potential—and loves us anyway. When we walk in truth and vulnerability, His grace and power are displayed in our weakness. And as 1 Samuel 16:7 reminds us, “The Lord does not look at the things people look at.  People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”.” Authentic people in authentic communities become God’s instruments for growth and impact.

Challenge Question:  Where in your life is God calling you to drop the mask and live more authentically—with Him, with your family, or with trusted friends?

Closing Prayer:  Father, thank You for loving us fully and authentically through Christ. Teach us to embrace who we are in You, to acknowledge our weaknesses, and to pursue real relationships where we can be known by you and those around us. May our authenticity draw others to You and reflect the power of Your grace. In Jesus’ name, Amen!

Have a week of living truly authentic—inside and out—in Christ!

Word of the Week - Hospitality

"Show Hospitality to one another without grumbling” - 1 Peter 4:9

Growing up in South Louisiana, in the heart of Cajun country, I was surrounded by some of the most hospitable people you’ll ever meet. The Cajun culture is known for making strangers feel like family—welcoming them, feeding them, and loving them without hesitation. That spirit of open-handed hospitality became one of our Donner family values and has shaped how I live and lead today. As leaders, husbands, fathers, and CEOs, we have countless opportunities to extend this same kind of Christ-like welcome to others in both our homes, businesses, and communities.

Hospitality is the posture of a host toward a guest—receiving others with goodwill, warmth, and genuine care. At its core, biblical hospitality is more than entertaining; it’s loving people in a way that reflects the heart of Christ. It is about making others feel valued, seen, and accepted—whether they can return the favor or not.  It is about adding value to others without expecting something in return.

Principles of Biblical Hospitality

• Warmth that Breaks Down Barriers
  Hospitality begins with a smile, a kind word, or a handshake. A simple act of warmth helps people feel seen and lowers defenses. This small but powerful practice creates space for trust and deeper connection.

• Personalization that Honors Others
  Our God is personal; He not only knows our name, He knows the number of hairs on our head.  Remembering a person’s name, asking about their family, or paying attention to their preferences communicates, “You matter.” In business and in life, intentional hospitality honors people and reflects the personal love of Christ for each of us.

• Service that Reflects God’s Heart
  Hebrews 13:1–2 reminds us: “Let brotherly love continue. Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.” Biblical hospitality is distinctive because it goes beyond friends and family—it extends to strangers, the hurting, and even those who cannot repay us. Romans 12:13 calls us to “contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality.” In this way, hospitality becomes both outreach and discipleship: it draws outsiders toward Christ and deepens relationships inside the body of Christ. God uses our homes, tables, and lives as tools to build His Kingdom both inside and outside the Church.

God is so gracious that He welcomed us into His family and made us co-heirs with Christ. Each day He invites us to His table for daily bread through abiding in Him. In response, He calls us to extend His love and grace to others. As John Maxwell says, “People will forget what you said, forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” Hospitality is one of the simplest, most tangible ways to live out the Great Commandment: Love God, Love Others.

Challenge Question: Who is one person—inside or outside your circle—that you can intentionally invite in this week to experience the love of Christ through your hospitality?  Maybe a neighbor, a colleague or just someone God has put on your heart.

Prayer: Father, thank You for welcoming us into Your family through Christ. Help us to reflect Your heart by showing hospitality to others without grumbling. Give us the eyes to see opportunities, the courage to open our lives, and the love to make people feel valued and at home in You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Have a great week showing hospitality to those in your sphere!

Word of the Week - Commitment

"The eyes of the Lord range throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to Him. - 1 Chronicles 16:9

Personal Reflection - We will never experience the best of God’s plan for our lives without being fully committed. Every meaningful pursuit begins with a decision followed by commitment—whether it’s a new exercise routine, a job, a relationship, or a spiritual discipline. Yet in today’s culture of instant gratification and options, commitment can feel like a negative word. The truth is, the best things in life are born out of commitment, especially being and staying committed over the long haul.

Our commitment to Christ is the most important one we will every make.  I fully surrendered and committed my life to Christ 25 years ago and my life has never been the same.  I have had many ups and downs over the past 25 years, and at times I have grown weary, but the Lord has sustained me.  I have remained committed to my walk with Jesus, primarily by making my relationship with Him a daily priority.  He is the source of life and living water that we need each day, but we have a choice every day when we wake up to decide if we will drink of the living water.  I’ve never heard anyone say they regret staying connected and committed to a walk with Christ, though many who’ve have lost their way in their connection and commitment to Christ have many regrets.  Commitment is a key to living an abundant and fruitful life.

What is Commitment - Commitment is the act of wholeheartedly devoting ourselves to something or someone with steadfast loyalty and perseverance—regardless of feelings, convenience, or changing circumstances. In the context of our walk with God, commitment means making Christ the highest priority and aligning our decisions, actions, and values with Him daily. It is a covenant posture of the heart that says: “I am fully in, for the long haul.”

Here are a few guiding principles for living a life fully committed to the Lord:

• God’s Commitment to Us - God demonstrates ultimate commitment in Christ: “But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8). His love and sacrifice compel us to respond with full devotion and commitment to Him. Our lives reveal what we are truly committed to. 

• Commitment Brings Blessing - God promises to bless those who commit their way to Him: “Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him and He will do this.” (Psalm 37:4–5). Commitment to God unlocks His provision, protection, and purpose. Often, His blessings come through perseverance and waiting. Commitment over time proves the depth of our love.

• Commitment Unlocks Potential - Being fully committed is the only way to realize our God-given potential. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” (Proverbs 3:5–6). God has prepared good works in advance for us (Ephesians 2:10), and we only walk in them when He is our first priority. Commitment to God in our time, relationships, and resources demonstrates our love and becomes a light to the world (Matthew 5:16).

Challenge Question

What area of your life is God calling you to move from half-hearted effort to full commitment this week?

Closing Prayer

Lord, thank You for being fully committed to us through Christ. Help us to live with undivided hearts, to put You first in every area of our lives, and to persevere in faith through seasons of testing. May our commitment bring You glory and bless those around us.

Word of the Week - Harmony

“How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity (Harmony)! It is like precious oil poured on the head, running down on the beard, running down on Aaron’s beard, down on the collar of his robe. It is as if the dew of Hermon were falling on Mount Zion. For there the Lord bestows His blessing, even life forevermore.” Psalm 133

Personal Reflection - The tragic assassination of Charlie Kirk at a public event is a sobering reminder of how far our country has drifted from unity and harmony. In the aftermath, we see politicized blame, hateful rhetoric, fear, and distrust—symptoms of deep disharmony in our culture. It presses on me how much we need what Psalm 133 describes: harmony that comes from shared values and a higher purpose. For me, this is a call not only for our nation but also for my personal relationships—to soften my words, to choose compassion over being right, and to seek unity even when differences remain. In these fractured times, pursuing harmony isn’t optional; it is essential if we are to reflect Christ to the world.

What is Harmony - Harmony is the state of living with an agreeable and conforming spirit toward others, with shared values and a higher purpose in mind. Like a willing spirit, harmony is a blessing but requires intentionality. Our sinful nature leans toward independence and disharmony, while culture today often magnifies division instead of common ground. But in Christ, we have a foundation to live in peace and unity with one another.

Here are a few guiding principles for building Harmony in our lives, relationships, and the cultures we steward:

• Start with Common Ground - If we are in relationship with someone—whether family, friends, or colleagues—we already share much. Building on those shared values and purposes strengthens trust and creates unity. In business, family, or church, when the team’s vision and values are placed above personal preferences, harmony follows. “Then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind.” (Philippians 2:2)

• Define the Majors and Minors - Harmony does not mean uniformity. We can have different personalities, methods, or preferences without undermining unity. The key is not to major in the minors. In faith, the essentials (the Cross, Trinity, Christ as the way to the Father) must remain central. But secondary things like style of worship or denomination should not divide us. “For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking, but of righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 14:17)

• Be Willing to Yield and Compromise - Harmony grows out of humility. None of us are without flaws or blind spots. Valuing others’ perspectives—even when different—requires a posture of yielding. It is far better to be united with some compromise than to be divided and “right.” “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” (Ephesians 4:2–3)

Challenge Question

Where do you need to lay down personal preference or pride this week in order to pursue greater harmony in your marriage, family, friendships, workplace—or even in how you engage with the division in our nation?

Closing Prayer

Lord, help us to pursue harmony with those around us—at home, at work, in our churches, and in our nation. Give us the humility to yield when needed, the wisdom to focus on what truly matters, and the courage to place shared values above personal agendas. May our unity be a witness of Your love and power in a divided world.

“We must learn to live together as brothers and sisters or perish as fools.”
– Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Have a week filled with peace and harmony!

Word of the Week - Willing Spirit

"Restore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit to sustain me." Psalm 51:12

Personal Reflection – The Lord continues to do a good work on me in this area mainly through my closest relationships—my marriage, my family, my friends, and even in our business. My nature leans toward being efficient and direct, but at times that can come across as harsh or lacking grace. At the worst of times, it is offensive and hurtful.  God is showing me that part of having a willing spirit is allowing Him to soften me, to lead me toward more gentleness, kindness, and patience. He keeps reminding me that His way is not just about being truthful and direct, but about speaking the truth in love. This refining work has not always been easy, but it is producing fruit in my relationships and refining me more into the image of Christ.

What is a Willing Spirit? - A willing spirit is a posture of “yes, Lord.” It’s a heart ready to receive, obey, and trust God even when we don’t see the full picture or fully understand. Growth, maturity, and blessing in our walk with Christ hinge on whether our spirit is open and surrendered to Him. Without it, we risk missing the best God has for us.

Here are a few ways we can continue to develop a “Willing Spirt” toward God:

• Trusting God by His Word –The more we know Him, the more confidence we have in His goodness. Trust grows as we walk with Him, and that trust fuels our willingness to obey. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” (Proverbs 3:5–6)

• Renewing Our Minds in Truth -God’s Word reshapes how we think and live. A willing spirit is sustained by daily renewal through Scripture. “Do not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing, and perfect will.” (Romans 12:2)

• Dependence on God Alone – King David knew his blessing flowed from God’s presence and Spirit, not his own strength. Before asking for a willing spirit, he prayed: “Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me from your presence or take your Holy Spirit from me.” (Psalm 51:10–11) True willingness is born from and abiding dependence on Him.

• A Willing Spirit Sustains Us - God promises to meet those who seek Him wholeheartedly: “You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.” (Jeremiah 29:13). Jesus Himself said, “If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” (John 15:5) A willing spirit anchors us in His sustaining presence.

Challenge Question:

Where in your life right now is God asking for a deeper “yes”—an area where He is calling you to soften, trust, or surrender more fully to His Spirit?

Closing Prayer

Lord, grant us a willing spirit—hearts ready to say “yes” to You, minds renewed in Your truth, and lives fully dependent on Your Spirit. May we never miss the great things You have in store for us because we are not willing to say yes Lord! “For I know the plans I have for you…plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11)

Have a great “yes Lord” week!!!

Word of the Week - Encourage

“And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another-and all the more as you see the Day approaching.” Hebrews 10:24-25

This past week, I lost a dear friend, Tim Lee (Tim Lee's Obituary), who was unexpectedly called home to be with the Lord.  I have known Tim for nearly twenty years and had the privilege to serve with him many times through the JH/Outback ministries.  Tim was originally from Baton Rouge, LA and a big LSU fan.  We shared a passion for LSU football among other things, see attached pics from 2020 National Championship Game we attended together.  Tim was likely the greatest encourager I have ever known.  He didn’t just love-he loved BIG.  His life was a living testimony of encouraging others: he sent daily texts to friends and family each day that were filled with Scripture, words of hope, pictures he had taken of certain memories, and often a song to brighten the day.  I have been the recipient of hundreds and possibly thousands of these encouraging messages from Tim over the years.  He also carried purple pens with the reminder, “Life can change on a dime”.  Tim made sure everyone who crossed his path felt like they mattered.  Tim lived Hebrews 10:24-25 to its fullest.  He encouraged others daily, and his legacy inspires me-and all of us-to do the same.

The following is the last text I received from Tim on Saturday, August 23rd, “What is friendship in simple words?  Friendship is a close relationship between two or more people who care about and support each other.  It is built on trust, honesty, and mutual respect.  Friends often share common interests and experiences, and enjoy spending time together.  “No greater love than a man to lay down his life for a friend” John 15:13  Thank God that Jesus is our Friend.  Geaux Be a friend today! Don’t look for a blessing, Be One! Thank God for friends I call them Angels!  Grateful for our friendship!  P.S. Please pray for Bailey Smith her brain tumor is back, and she needs a miracle in Jesus name.  Lift up Landmark Gridiron event on Monday night!

So, what can we learn from the life and legacy of Tim Lee?  First and foremost, to follow his amazing example of love and encouragement towards others.  Encouragement is so powerful; we all need to be encouraged.  Encouragement is defined as the intentional act of strengthening, uplifting, and inspiring another person through words, presence, or actions.  At its core, encouragement means “to put courage into” someone-helping them persevere in faith, obedience, and hope when circumstances may tempt them toward fear, weakness, or despair.

The following are a few things I have learned from Tim and his amazing gift of encouragement:

• Encouragers Speak Life – Proverbs 18:21 reminds us that “the tongue has the power of life and death.” An encourager uses words to lift, heal, and inspire.  Like Tim’s daily texts, our words can remind someone they are loved, seen, and valued by God.

• Encouragers Build up Others – 1 Thessalonians 5:11 says, “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.” Encouragers look for ways to strengthen others, especially if they are walking through times of life challenges, whether through Scripture, prayer, a simple call, or showing up when it matters most.

• Encouragers Reflect God’s Heart – True encouragement isn’t just about positivity; it’s about pointing people back to the Source of all hope.  Romans 15:5 calls God the “God who gives endurance and encouragement.”  When we encourage, we reflect God’s nature and remind other of His O and promises.  

Tim Lee’s life and amazing example impacted me and so many in a big way and will continue to do so for years to come!  The following is a recent and real life example of Tim’s impact and influence on me.  In December of 2024 as I was praying and reflecting on the year ahead, I felt inspired by Tim and prompted by the Holy Spirit toward intentionally encouraging others.  This is something I had done from time to time more spontaneously, but not with daily intentionality like my friend Tim.  I set a goal to send 2-3 text encouragements a day to friends and family.  This is what that looks like for me: After my morning rhythm of abiding time (bible reading, journaling, praying) and working out, I pray and think about who I feel led to encourage for the day.  Sometimes it is because I know they are going through a challenging time and other times they are just on my heart and mind.  I then self-record a short video encouragement and text it to them with a brief note.  I have now been doing this for the past 8 months (Jan – August) and have sent nearly 400 individual encouragements that include the 3 elements noted above (Speak Life, Build up, Share God’s Word/heart).  This has become one of my favorite daily activities because it is one of the most fruitful things I get to do each day.  It is amazing how much a simple word of encouragement can impact someone.  It is truly powerful when spoke with love and under the authority of God’s truth.  By the way it only takes my about 5-10 minutes a day.  Surely the highest Eternal Rate of Return (ERR) activity of my day.

Challenge Question:

This week, who can you intentionally encourage with your words, actions, or presence?  Will you take time to spur someone on toward love and good deeds, just as our dear friend Tim so faithfully did!

In honor and memory of Tim Lee, let’s Geaux be an encouragement to those around us today and everyday for God’s Glory!

Word of the Week - Eternal Hope

“Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character, and character, hope.  And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” Romans 5:3-5

Amy and I attended the funeral service of Camille Hensarling Mahtook yesterday in our hometown of Lafayette, LA.  Camille is the daughter and one of five children of our dear and lifelong friends Neil and Rachel Hensarling.  Amy and I grew up with Rachel and met Neil in college when they started dating. Rachel and Amy were roommates their junior and senior year in college, so Neil and I became good friends and have maintained a strong friendship since.  Camille was diagnosed with Ocular Melanoma cancer over 5 years ago during her freshman year at LSU.  Since then, we have walked alongside the Hensarling family for the last 5 years praying fervently and believing that God would heal Camille.  I shared Camille’s story with my “Word of the Week” community when she was first diagnosed and a few times along the way, see “WOW” prior post about Camille.  It has been an amazing journey of faith; both gut wrenching and deeply inspiring. 

Over the past 5 years, I have witnessed Camille and her family walk through this very challenging situation with amazing faith, hope, and love.  They have lived life full of hope, trusting and believing for God’s healing power while at the same time acknowledging the reality and weight of this situation and doing everything possible to beat the cancer.  Camille and her family continued to “live” life to the full making every-day count.  Camille was an amazing beautiful (inside & out) and gifted young woman.  You can read her Obituary in the link above to get the full picture of Camille. I attended Camille’s wedding in January of this year.  It was one of the most loving and moving experiences of my life and so full of faith, hope, and love.

Camille’s funeral yesterday was so impactful to me and all who attended; there was standing room only.  On one hand it was deeply heartbreaking to see her husband Greg, along with her family in the pain of their loss. On the other hand, the faith, hope, and love that was present was overwhelming.  I think everyone there experienced the presence of God in a supernatural way.  The inspiration of how Camille, her husband Greg, and their family have lived by faith and continue to place their hope in God is nothing short of miraculous and deeply inspiring toward the eternal hope of those who trust God as Savior. “God’s love was poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit” yesterday at Camille’s life celebration service.

So how did Camille, Greg and their family and walk with such faith, hope and love through this tremendous challenge:

• Faith - “Faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see” Hebrews 11:1 Camille, Greg and their families walked in faith every day remaining confident with hope even when the circumstances were not lining up.  This is true faith, and it is powerful.

• Hope – “May the God of hope fill you with all joy, and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit”. Romans 15:13 Camille, Greg and their families put their hope and trust in Jesus as the source.  In doing so, they had they experienced supernatural hope and joy through the trial by the power of the Holy Spirit.

• Love – “And now these three things remain: faith, hope, and love.  But the greatest of these is love” 1 Corinthians 13:13 The essence of God is love; therefore, love wins over all.  The love that was manifest in and through Camille, Greg and their family was overwhelming throughout the journey and tangibly present yesterday at the service. I experienced the presence of God’s love through them.

It is hard to understand why this would happen to such an amazing young woman and great family, and why God did not heal her as we all prayed for.  With this difficult question in the forefront, there is no doubt that God has and will continue to use the life of Camille, Greg and her family for His purpose and glory to draw people to Jesus. The miracle is how much God did and will continue to do into eternity through Camille and her 24 short years on this earth.  Our true hope is not in this short life on earth but in our eternal life in heaven.

“Show me, Lord, my life’s end and the number of days; let me know how fleeting my life is. You have made my days a mere handbreadth; the span of my years as nothing before you.  Everyone is but a breath, even those who seem secure.” Psalm 39: 4-5

This has prompted me to reflect on my own life and evaluate if I am living life to the full as if this could be my last day?  Am I living full of faith, hope and love? Today is the only day we are promised, so let us make the most of it and live it full of Faith, Hope and Love like Camille, Greg and their family.

Word of the Week - Idols

“You shall have no other gods before me.  You shall not make for yourself a carved image…You shall not bow down to them or serve them." – Exodus 20:3-5

I spent this weekend at a men’s conference at Lake Martin with a little over 100 men.  The essence of this “Warrior” retreat hosted by Triumph of Hope was geared towards “Awakening men to seek after God’s best and highest purpose for their lives”.  It was a powerful experience with a combination of testimony/talks, prayer, praise and worship, reflection, and a call to confession, repentance, and surrender; with the hope that all attendees would experience personal revival in their walk with Jesus and be freed from anything that may be holding us back from experiencing the fullness of God in our lives.

As I prayed and reflected about my own life and what might threaten or hinder my relationship with Jesus, I felt the holy spirit gently nudge and remind me of the risk of idols. An idol is anything we put in the place of God in our hearts — anything we love, trust, or obey more than Him. It can be a physical object, but more often it’s a desire, ambition, relationship, or pursuit that takes God’s rightful place as first in our affections and allegiance.

Given my stage of life — decades into business leadership, a growing ministry vision, a deep desire to leave a generational impact, and an active role in family and marriage (34 years of marriage, 3 grown children and 8 grandchildren) — some “idols” may be subtle, even good things that could shift into ultimate things if I am not intentional about protecting my heart and soul in these areas.

Here are a few things that God showed me that I need to be aware of quietly taking the throne of my heart:

• Achievement & Legacy – Measuring my worth by what I have built, the size of my influence, or how well my company/ministry will carry forward my name.  The risk here is that I find my identity in accomplishment versus who I am in Christ. “What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?” (Mark 8:36)

• Control & Self-Sufficiency – Desiring everything in my life from business succession to ministry growth to family decisions to align with my vision, plan, and timing.  The risk here is that instead of fully trusting God I am trusting my vision and plan.  “Trust in the Lord with all of your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.” (Proverbs 3:5)

• Reputation & Influence – Valuing the respect, recognition, and perception others have of you more than God’s quiet approval.  The risk here is having my decisions subtly shaped by “how it will be received” rather than “is this what God is calling me to?”  “For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? … If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.” (Galatians 1:10)

• Family & Security – Prioritizing the protection of family comfort, wealth, or lifestyle over the harder calls of obedience. The risk here is avoiding risky steps of faith because they might “disrupt” my family and what feels settled for this stage of my life.  “Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me…” (Matthew 10:37)

• Ministry as Identity – Deriving my joy or self-worth from how well our ministry is received, how big it grows, or how many leaders we influence. The risk here is that the work of God becomes a substitute for the presence of God. “Yet I hold this against you: You have forsaken your first love.” (Revelation 2:4)

Challenge Question:
What important and good things in your life may be competing with Jesus for priority in your heart.  If God took any of these things away tomorrow, how would your heart respond?  Am I willing to put God in His proper place high above everything in my life?

I pray the Holy Spirit will give us the strength and power to identify and remove/reorder potential idols in our lives so we can receive the fullness of what God has for us and live “The life that is truly life” in Christ Jesus! 

Word of the Week - Trust

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will direct your paths and make them straight." – Proverbs 3:5–6

Trust Defined - Merriam-Webster defines trust as “firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, character, or strength of someone or something.”
Biblical trust goes further—it’s complete surrender and reliance on God. It’s believing in His faithfulness, placing confidence in His character, and standing on His promises.

The Tension Between Trust and Control
There’s a fine line between fully trusting and trying to control—especially in our walk with God and our relationships. Most of us naturally want to manage our environments, but the question is: are we limiting our potential—and the potential of those around us—by holding on too tightly?

I’ve wrestled with this my whole life. By God’s grace, I’ve grown, but He keeps showing me there’s more room to surrender. He is our Good Shepherd, trustworthy in every way, who desires the best for us. Faith equals trust.

The Consequences of Half-Trust
When we cling to control, even in the small things, we reveal areas where we aren’t trusting God. Jesus told us plainly: “Do not worry about tomorrow… Each day has enough trouble of its own” (Matthew 6:34). Worry creates anxiety in us—and often in those around us.

Yes, we must take responsibility for our roles, but micromanaging people and circumstances is not healthy or productive. Instead, God calls us to rest in His power and sovereignty—producing power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7).

Trusting Generously
Ephesians 3:17 reminds us that as we trust in Christ, our roots grow deep in His love and keep us strong. Trust grows like a muscle: the more we use it, the more capacity we have for it. As we trust God, He proves Himself faithful—strengthening our faith for the future.

The same is true with people. The more we extend trust, the more trustworthiness we often cultivate in them. Yes, people will disappoint us, but trusting generously over time bears more fruit than controlling relationships. As Paul wrote: “Whoever sows generously will also reap generously” (2 Corinthians 9:6).

So how do we Trust God and others more Generously? 
As I reflect on this in my own life and think about my level of trust toward God and others, it really comes down to how well I know the person I desire to trust.  If I really know someone well and know their character I tend to trust generously.  If I don’t really know them and don’t really know their heart motivations or true character, I am less inclined to trust them generously.  It is also this way with God.  If we really know Him and who He is at His very core, we will be more willing and able to trust Him.  If we just know some things about Him and see Him as a distant God, it will be very difficult to “Trust Him with all of our heart”.  The key to trusting God and others is truly getting to know them.  We get to know God and others by spending time with them by investing in our relationship. This is why it is so important to our faith and relationship with Jesus that we stay connected to the vine of Christ by abiding in Him daily through His word, prayer, and worship.  “My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.” John 10:27

Challenge Question:
Where in your life right now do you need to loosen your grip and trust God—or someone close to you—more generously?

I pray we can all grow in our Trust in God and with others so we can live in the blessing that comes from knowing and trusting God and others!

Word of the Week - Generational

“One generation shall commend your works to another and shall declare your mighty acts.” — Psalm 145:4

Amy and I are keeping four of our eight grandkids this week to allow my daughter Saige and her husband to attend a marriage enrichment retreat at Scott River Lodge (SRL) in northern California.  We attended the same retreat a few years ago and it was life changing for us.  SRL is a couples ministry of  JH Ranch.  Over the years, I have shared much about both and how they have shaped our generational view and approach to marriage, family, and life.   

As the years pass and the number and ages of my grandchildren increase, I become more focused, passionate, and intentional toward building a godly heritage and legacy for my family and business. Over the years I have written several “WOWs” on Heritage, Legacy, and Generational blessing.  Most of these were focused on family, which I believe is most important.

In this week’s “Word of the Week” I am applying the same concepts and principles that I have shared about family to building a company/organization that is truly built to last — not just for the next 5 or 10 years, but for generations. A business with clarity of vision, mission, purpose, and values that remains Kingdom-focused and impact-driven long after the first and founding generation passes the torch.  I have been thinking about this and laying the foundation for this transition process at Founders Advisors for at least a decade.  We initiated the transition process recently by putting an equity purchase plan in place for our next generation of leaders. This was a big step in the process that will likely take decades to complete.  I am excited about the opportunity to be part of building a business that will remain on mission for generations to come with the hope that it will be the gift that keeps on giving long after I am gone.

So how do we build something that lasts 100+ years and honors God in the process? 

Start with a shared God Vision, not just our own - A generational company begins with a Kingdom-centered vision. It’s not just about what we want to build, but about what God wants to accomplish through us. As leaders we must Abide in Christ and stay connected to the Vine of Christ so we can hear from God.  We must lead with a long view — seeing our work as part of His eternal story. We must also work to build deep buy-in from leadership by including them in the process.  This starts with who you hire and their alignment to your vision, mission, values, and purpose. 

“Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.” — Psalm 127:1

Instill and Reinforce Clear Values and Purpose - Culture will drift unless it's consistently and intentionally shaped. We must clearly define, model, and protect values that reflect Christ — values like Servant Leadership, Order/God First, Growth, and Excellence.  We must talk about our values and purpose often and always look for ways to model and reinforce them.  We should include our team, especially our leaders in the process of reinforcing our values and hold each other accountable.

“As iron sharpens iron, so does one person sharpen another.” — Proverbs 27:17

Think and Build Multi-Generationally – We must live with a generational mindset and be thinking about the future.  We don’t just build for today — we build for those who come after us. That means developing leaders, transferring ownership wisely, and staying faithful to the mission. God calls us to think beyond our own timeline. It also means we are putting structures and systems in place that align with our longer-term vision.  This can include board governance structures that can include stewarding the vision, mission, purpose and values of an organization such as a Perpetual Purpose Trust.     

“A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children…” — Proverbs 13:22

Challenge for the Week:
What are you building today that will still matter 100 years from now? What legacy of leadership, culture, and Kingdom impact are you leaving behind?

Let’s build something that lasts — for His glory, and for generations to come.

Word of the Week - Team

“Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil.  For if they fall, one will life up his fellow.  But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!  Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone?  And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him-a threefold cord is not quickly broken.” -Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

The Power and Synergy of Relationships - I love how God designed humanity with a focus on relationship—with Him and with others. This is the heart of the Great Commandment and the essence of our faith: to love God and love others.

In His wisdom, God wove certain principles into creation that are both practical and divine—like the synergy of Team. We all recognize that we’re better together than trying to do life solo. Still, human nature (and often American culture) nudges us toward independence. There’s value in rugged individualism, but it has its limits.

We can only go so far in our own strength. But when the right group of people comes together with a shared mission and God’s blessing, something powerful happens—our gifts are multiplied. That’s the divine synergy of Team: 1 + 1 = 5 (or more!) when God is in the middle of it.

Joy and Protection in Team - Beyond results, life is simply more joyful when we do it with others. Wins are more meaningful, and setbacks more manageable. Even the most gifted among us will face seasons of adversity, discouragement, or temptation. If we’re isolated in those moments, there may be no one to help us up—or hold us accountable.

Proverbs 27:17 reminds us, “As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.” We need teammates who sharpen and protect us. The enemy wants to isolate us, especially when we’re living for God’s Kingdom. Staying connected in honest, vulnerable relationships provides covering—and it gives us the chance to be that covering for others. That’s the beauty of Team.

You Have a Place on God’s Team - Even if you don’t feel part of a team in certain areas, know this: you have a place on God’s Team. The Kingdom is incomplete without you stepping into your role. Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 12 that every part of the Body matters, especially those that may seem hidden or weak.

So, pursue the journey: Know God, Find Freedom, Discover Your Purpose, and Make a Difference. Use your gifts to serve alongside others. There is no doubt that together we are better—God’s glory is most demonstrated through the body working together in the name of Jesus.

Challenge Question:
Are you living life with a team and community perspective as it relates to your vocation and your God purpose, or are you trying to do too much in your own strength?

We are way better together!!!!!!!

Word of the Week - Godly Wisdom

“For wisdom is more precious than rubies, and nothing you desire can compare with her.” - Proverbs 8:11

As Kingdom-minded servant leaders, we’re called to lead with something far more valuable than success, recognition, or wealth—godly wisdom. Proverbs 8:11 reminds us that nothing we desire can compare to her. In a culture that chases personal ambition, quick wins, and worldly “smarts,” God calls us to a different kind of wisdom—godly Wisdom defined as supernatural skill for day-to-day living.

James 3 makes it clear that not all wisdom is the same. There is a wisdom from above—pure, peace-loving, and full of good fruit—and there’s a worldly counterfeit rooted in envy and selfish ambition. One leads to harmony and impact. The other leads to disorder and regret. Here are three consolidated attributes of godly wisdom worth pursuing in our leadership and our lives:

• Pure Hearts and Authentic Lives – Godly wisdom starts in the heart. It’s not just about having the right answers—it’s about being the right person. We’re called to live with integrity, keeping our hearts clean and motives honest. This means guarding what we consume, how we speak, and who we allow to influence us. Authenticity follows purity. We don’t put on masks to impress others—we become the best version of who God created us to be. “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.” (Matthew 5:8)

• Peaceful, Others-Focused Leadership – A wise leader values peace over proving a point. We’re not called to mirror the strife of this world but to model grace, harmony, and humility—even in conflict. Wisdom considers others first, speaks gently, listens well, and serves freely. This kind of leadership isn’t weak—it’s power under control. As Paul said, “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” (Romans 12:18)

• Humble Strength and Gracious Authority – Wisdom yields without losing conviction. A kingdom-hearted leader knows when to speak and when to submit. We admit our wrongs, seek counsel, and show mercy because we’ve been shown mercy. In a world that prizes dominance and being right, godly wisdom elevates humility and grace. “The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice.”(Proverbs 12:15)

The best news is that according to James 1:5 godly Wisdom is available to all of us; we simply have to ask God for it. “If anyone lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.”  So, let’s make it a daily priority to pray and ask God for His wisdom in our lives because godly wisdom doesn’t just make us better leaders—it makes us brighter lights in a dark world. “Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.” (James 3:18)

Challenge Question :  Where in your leadership today are you relying more on worldly wisdom vs. godly wisdom. Are you asking God for Wisdom?

I pray for an impartation of godly Wisdom this week and the fruit that come with Wisdom from above!

Word of the Week - Serve

“For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and give His life as a ransom for many.” – Mark 10:45

Service is simply helping others—but at its best, it’s about adding value to those we serve. I believe service is more than just the task—it’s an attitude. Most of us spend our days serving others through the work we do—whether it’s food, home, tech, or financial services. And we all know the difference between poor, average, and great service—because we’ve experienced the spectrum. We tend to measure service against what we’ve received elsewhere. For example, we don’t expect a fast-food experience to match fine dining—but when someone consistently goes above and beyond, it leaves a mark.

That’s the opportunity: Service is one of the most powerful ways to influence others and make a lasting impact. Just look at Chick-fil-A. They’ve raised the bar and reshaped expectations by doing ordinary things with extraordinary care.  We are following their lead and striving to become the “Gold Standard” M&A Advisory Firm.  We desire to become the “Chick-fil-A” of our industry! 

The Heart of Service
Great service starts inside—with our heart. It’s a privilege to serve others, not a burden. As Jesus said, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” (Acts 20:35) When we see service as a joy, not a job, we begin to reflect Christ more clearly. That’s the essence of the Gospel—Jesus gave everything for us and modeled what it looks like to serve selflessly. As believers, we’re called to follow that example—to show love in practical ways to our families, communities, and workplaces. Often, it’s the simplest acts of kindness that open hearts to the love of Jesus.

Going the Extra Mile
“If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two.” (Matthew 5:41)
Exceptional service isn’t about checking a box—it’s about showing up with a willing spirit. When we exceed expectations—not out of obligation or to be noticed, but from a genuine desire to bless—we create trust, goodwill, and lasting impact. This mindset works in every part of life, especially in business. Going the extra mile is often what turns clients into friends and colleagues into allies. And in God’s Kingdom, the one who serves with humility and joy is highly honored.

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves…” (Philippians 2:3–4)

Walking It Out Together
At Founders Advisors, Service is one of our core values. We strive to serve our clients, our teammates, and our community with excellence. A few times each year—like on MLK Day and during the summer—we intentionally step out together to serve in tangible ways. Just yesterday, I had the opportunity to work alongside over 25 of our team members and their families for a Serve Day.  We were able to complete several projects at Cornerstone Christian School’s middle school campus. Cornerstone is an amazing school that serves over 700 underprivileged kids (k-12), offering students a godly and safe environment for education and much more.  It was a simple but powerful way to be the hands and feet of Jesus—and to live out the heart of service.

I’m grateful for Christ’s example and for the opportunity to serve alongside others. There’s something sacred about coming together to serve—not for recognition, but for impact.

Challenge Question:
What is your heart attitude toward serving others?  Do you see it as an obligation or opportunity?  Do you see serving as an opportunity to influence and impact others for God’s glory?

Have a great week!

Word of the Week - Freedom (Independence Day)

“Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.” — 2 Corinthians 3:17

July 4th – Independence Day – marks the moment in 1776 when America officially declared independence from Great Britain. Despite the turmoil and division we see today, we must still recognize the blessing of living in this great nation and thank God for His hand over the United States these past 247 years. We have much to celebrate.

Our family celebrated Independence Day in Dauphin Island, Colony Cove Community (CCV) this year, a community we recently joined.  CCV has an annual tradition that includes a family parade through the community ending at the flagpole where we all recited the pledge of allegiance and sang the Star-Spangled Banner.  CCV ended the afternoon with BBQ at the pool and fireworks, see parade pic attached.  It was a great and memorable day!

The Price and Value of Freedom:
Beyond the fireworks and festivities, July 4th should be a day of remembrance and gratitude. The freedom we enjoy came at a high price—countless lives sacrificed over generations to secure and defend our rights. As Americans, we are blessed to live in a land that values individual liberty. The Declaration of Independence boldly proclaims, “all men are created equal” and “endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights,” including life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. These truths must not be taken for granted.

The Responsibility of Freedom:
Freedom also comes with responsibility. President Reagan warned that it’s never more than one generation from extinction and must be fought for and preserved. Spiritually, Christ paid the ultimate price for our eternal freedom—freedom from sin and death. “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free” (Gal. 5:1). But this freedom isn't about independence from God—it’s about dependence on Him. In John 15:5, Jesus reminds us that we must abide in Him to bear fruit. Through Him, we are freed not for selfish gain but to love and serve others (Gal. 5:13).

A Grateful Prayer:
Lord, thank You for the freedoms we enjoy—freedom of belief, worship, prayer, and speech. Help us steward them well and honor the sacrifices made to secure them. Most of all, thank You for the freedom we have through Christ’s sacrifice, granting us eternal life and peace.

Challenge Question:
How are you actively using your freedom—in both your country and your faith—to serve others, honor God, and advance His kingdom?

God Bless you and God Bless America, the land of the Free!!