Word of the Week - Hospitality

"Show Hospitality to one another without grumbling” - 1 Peter 4:9

Growing up in South Louisiana, in the heart of Cajun country, I was surrounded by some of the most hospitable people you’ll ever meet. The Cajun culture is known for making strangers feel like family—welcoming them, feeding them, and loving them without hesitation. That spirit of open-handed hospitality became one of our Donner family values and has shaped how I live and lead today. As leaders, husbands, fathers, and CEOs, we have countless opportunities to extend this same kind of Christ-like welcome to others in both our homes, businesses, and communities.

Hospitality is the posture of a host toward a guest—receiving others with goodwill, warmth, and genuine care. At its core, biblical hospitality is more than entertaining; it’s loving people in a way that reflects the heart of Christ. It is about making others feel valued, seen, and accepted—whether they can return the favor or not.  It is about adding value to others without expecting something in return.

Principles of Biblical Hospitality

• Warmth that Breaks Down Barriers
  Hospitality begins with a smile, a kind word, or a handshake. A simple act of warmth helps people feel seen and lowers defenses. This small but powerful practice creates space for trust and deeper connection.

• Personalization that Honors Others
  Our God is personal; He not only knows our name, He knows the number of hairs on our head.  Remembering a person’s name, asking about their family, or paying attention to their preferences communicates, “You matter.” In business and in life, intentional hospitality honors people and reflects the personal love of Christ for each of us.

• Service that Reflects God’s Heart
  Hebrews 13:1–2 reminds us: “Let brotherly love continue. Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.” Biblical hospitality is distinctive because it goes beyond friends and family—it extends to strangers, the hurting, and even those who cannot repay us. Romans 12:13 calls us to “contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality.” In this way, hospitality becomes both outreach and discipleship: it draws outsiders toward Christ and deepens relationships inside the body of Christ. God uses our homes, tables, and lives as tools to build His Kingdom both inside and outside the Church.

God is so gracious that He welcomed us into His family and made us co-heirs with Christ. Each day He invites us to His table for daily bread through abiding in Him. In response, He calls us to extend His love and grace to others. As John Maxwell says, “People will forget what you said, forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” Hospitality is one of the simplest, most tangible ways to live out the Great Commandment: Love God, Love Others.

Challenge Question: Who is one person—inside or outside your circle—that you can intentionally invite in this week to experience the love of Christ through your hospitality?  Maybe a neighbor, a colleague or just someone God has put on your heart.

Prayer: Father, thank You for welcoming us into Your family through Christ. Help us to reflect Your heart by showing hospitality to others without grumbling. Give us the eyes to see opportunities, the courage to open our lives, and the love to make people feel valued and at home in You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Have a great week showing hospitality to those in your sphere!

Word of the Week - Commitment

"The eyes of the Lord range throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to Him. - 1 Chronicles 16:9

Personal Reflection - We will never experience the best of God’s plan for our lives without being fully committed. Every meaningful pursuit begins with a decision followed by commitment—whether it’s a new exercise routine, a job, a relationship, or a spiritual discipline. Yet in today’s culture of instant gratification and options, commitment can feel like a negative word. The truth is, the best things in life are born out of commitment, especially being and staying committed over the long haul.

Our commitment to Christ is the most important one we will every make.  I fully surrendered and committed my life to Christ 25 years ago and my life has never been the same.  I have had many ups and downs over the past 25 years, and at times I have grown weary, but the Lord has sustained me.  I have remained committed to my walk with Jesus, primarily by making my relationship with Him a daily priority.  He is the source of life and living water that we need each day, but we have a choice every day when we wake up to decide if we will drink of the living water.  I’ve never heard anyone say they regret staying connected and committed to a walk with Christ, though many who’ve have lost their way in their connection and commitment to Christ have many regrets.  Commitment is a key to living an abundant and fruitful life.

What is Commitment - Commitment is the act of wholeheartedly devoting ourselves to something or someone with steadfast loyalty and perseverance—regardless of feelings, convenience, or changing circumstances. In the context of our walk with God, commitment means making Christ the highest priority and aligning our decisions, actions, and values with Him daily. It is a covenant posture of the heart that says: “I am fully in, for the long haul.”

Here are a few guiding principles for living a life fully committed to the Lord:

• God’s Commitment to Us - God demonstrates ultimate commitment in Christ: “But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8). His love and sacrifice compel us to respond with full devotion and commitment to Him. Our lives reveal what we are truly committed to. 

• Commitment Brings Blessing - God promises to bless those who commit their way to Him: “Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him and He will do this.” (Psalm 37:4–5). Commitment to God unlocks His provision, protection, and purpose. Often, His blessings come through perseverance and waiting. Commitment over time proves the depth of our love.

• Commitment Unlocks Potential - Being fully committed is the only way to realize our God-given potential. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” (Proverbs 3:5–6). God has prepared good works in advance for us (Ephesians 2:10), and we only walk in them when He is our first priority. Commitment to God in our time, relationships, and resources demonstrates our love and becomes a light to the world (Matthew 5:16).

Challenge Question

What area of your life is God calling you to move from half-hearted effort to full commitment this week?

Closing Prayer

Lord, thank You for being fully committed to us through Christ. Help us to live with undivided hearts, to put You first in every area of our lives, and to persevere in faith through seasons of testing. May our commitment bring You glory and bless those around us.

Word of the Week - Harmony

“How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity (Harmony)! It is like precious oil poured on the head, running down on the beard, running down on Aaron’s beard, down on the collar of his robe. It is as if the dew of Hermon were falling on Mount Zion. For there the Lord bestows His blessing, even life forevermore.” Psalm 133

Personal Reflection - The tragic assassination of Charlie Kirk at a public event is a sobering reminder of how far our country has drifted from unity and harmony. In the aftermath, we see politicized blame, hateful rhetoric, fear, and distrust—symptoms of deep disharmony in our culture. It presses on me how much we need what Psalm 133 describes: harmony that comes from shared values and a higher purpose. For me, this is a call not only for our nation but also for my personal relationships—to soften my words, to choose compassion over being right, and to seek unity even when differences remain. In these fractured times, pursuing harmony isn’t optional; it is essential if we are to reflect Christ to the world.

What is Harmony - Harmony is the state of living with an agreeable and conforming spirit toward others, with shared values and a higher purpose in mind. Like a willing spirit, harmony is a blessing but requires intentionality. Our sinful nature leans toward independence and disharmony, while culture today often magnifies division instead of common ground. But in Christ, we have a foundation to live in peace and unity with one another.

Here are a few guiding principles for building Harmony in our lives, relationships, and the cultures we steward:

• Start with Common Ground - If we are in relationship with someone—whether family, friends, or colleagues—we already share much. Building on those shared values and purposes strengthens trust and creates unity. In business, family, or church, when the team’s vision and values are placed above personal preferences, harmony follows. “Then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind.” (Philippians 2:2)

• Define the Majors and Minors - Harmony does not mean uniformity. We can have different personalities, methods, or preferences without undermining unity. The key is not to major in the minors. In faith, the essentials (the Cross, Trinity, Christ as the way to the Father) must remain central. But secondary things like style of worship or denomination should not divide us. “For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking, but of righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 14:17)

• Be Willing to Yield and Compromise - Harmony grows out of humility. None of us are without flaws or blind spots. Valuing others’ perspectives—even when different—requires a posture of yielding. It is far better to be united with some compromise than to be divided and “right.” “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” (Ephesians 4:2–3)

Challenge Question

Where do you need to lay down personal preference or pride this week in order to pursue greater harmony in your marriage, family, friendships, workplace—or even in how you engage with the division in our nation?

Closing Prayer

Lord, help us to pursue harmony with those around us—at home, at work, in our churches, and in our nation. Give us the humility to yield when needed, the wisdom to focus on what truly matters, and the courage to place shared values above personal agendas. May our unity be a witness of Your love and power in a divided world.

“We must learn to live together as brothers and sisters or perish as fools.”
– Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Have a week filled with peace and harmony!

Word of the Week - Willing Spirit

"Restore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit to sustain me." Psalm 51:12

Personal Reflection – The Lord continues to do a good work on me in this area mainly through my closest relationships—my marriage, my family, my friends, and even in our business. My nature leans toward being efficient and direct, but at times that can come across as harsh or lacking grace. At the worst of times, it is offensive and hurtful.  God is showing me that part of having a willing spirit is allowing Him to soften me, to lead me toward more gentleness, kindness, and patience. He keeps reminding me that His way is not just about being truthful and direct, but about speaking the truth in love. This refining work has not always been easy, but it is producing fruit in my relationships and refining me more into the image of Christ.

What is a Willing Spirit? - A willing spirit is a posture of “yes, Lord.” It’s a heart ready to receive, obey, and trust God even when we don’t see the full picture or fully understand. Growth, maturity, and blessing in our walk with Christ hinge on whether our spirit is open and surrendered to Him. Without it, we risk missing the best God has for us.

Here are a few ways we can continue to develop a “Willing Spirt” toward God:

• Trusting God by His Word –The more we know Him, the more confidence we have in His goodness. Trust grows as we walk with Him, and that trust fuels our willingness to obey. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” (Proverbs 3:5–6)

• Renewing Our Minds in Truth -God’s Word reshapes how we think and live. A willing spirit is sustained by daily renewal through Scripture. “Do not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing, and perfect will.” (Romans 12:2)

• Dependence on God Alone – King David knew his blessing flowed from God’s presence and Spirit, not his own strength. Before asking for a willing spirit, he prayed: “Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me from your presence or take your Holy Spirit from me.” (Psalm 51:10–11) True willingness is born from and abiding dependence on Him.

• A Willing Spirit Sustains Us - God promises to meet those who seek Him wholeheartedly: “You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.” (Jeremiah 29:13). Jesus Himself said, “If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” (John 15:5) A willing spirit anchors us in His sustaining presence.

Challenge Question:

Where in your life right now is God asking for a deeper “yes”—an area where He is calling you to soften, trust, or surrender more fully to His Spirit?

Closing Prayer

Lord, grant us a willing spirit—hearts ready to say “yes” to You, minds renewed in Your truth, and lives fully dependent on Your Spirit. May we never miss the great things You have in store for us because we are not willing to say yes Lord! “For I know the plans I have for you…plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11)

Have a great “yes Lord” week!!!

Word of the Week - Encourage

“And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another-and all the more as you see the Day approaching.” Hebrews 10:24-25

This past week, I lost a dear friend, Tim Lee (Tim Lee's Obituary), who was unexpectedly called home to be with the Lord.  I have known Tim for nearly twenty years and had the privilege to serve with him many times through the JH/Outback ministries.  Tim was originally from Baton Rouge, LA and a big LSU fan.  We shared a passion for LSU football among other things, see attached pics from 2020 National Championship Game we attended together.  Tim was likely the greatest encourager I have ever known.  He didn’t just love-he loved BIG.  His life was a living testimony of encouraging others: he sent daily texts to friends and family each day that were filled with Scripture, words of hope, pictures he had taken of certain memories, and often a song to brighten the day.  I have been the recipient of hundreds and possibly thousands of these encouraging messages from Tim over the years.  He also carried purple pens with the reminder, “Life can change on a dime”.  Tim made sure everyone who crossed his path felt like they mattered.  Tim lived Hebrews 10:24-25 to its fullest.  He encouraged others daily, and his legacy inspires me-and all of us-to do the same.

The following is the last text I received from Tim on Saturday, August 23rd, “What is friendship in simple words?  Friendship is a close relationship between two or more people who care about and support each other.  It is built on trust, honesty, and mutual respect.  Friends often share common interests and experiences, and enjoy spending time together.  “No greater love than a man to lay down his life for a friend” John 15:13  Thank God that Jesus is our Friend.  Geaux Be a friend today! Don’t look for a blessing, Be One! Thank God for friends I call them Angels!  Grateful for our friendship!  P.S. Please pray for Bailey Smith her brain tumor is back, and she needs a miracle in Jesus name.  Lift up Landmark Gridiron event on Monday night!

So, what can we learn from the life and legacy of Tim Lee?  First and foremost, to follow his amazing example of love and encouragement towards others.  Encouragement is so powerful; we all need to be encouraged.  Encouragement is defined as the intentional act of strengthening, uplifting, and inspiring another person through words, presence, or actions.  At its core, encouragement means “to put courage into” someone-helping them persevere in faith, obedience, and hope when circumstances may tempt them toward fear, weakness, or despair.

The following are a few things I have learned from Tim and his amazing gift of encouragement:

• Encouragers Speak Life – Proverbs 18:21 reminds us that “the tongue has the power of life and death.” An encourager uses words to lift, heal, and inspire.  Like Tim’s daily texts, our words can remind someone they are loved, seen, and valued by God.

• Encouragers Build up Others – 1 Thessalonians 5:11 says, “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.” Encouragers look for ways to strengthen others, especially if they are walking through times of life challenges, whether through Scripture, prayer, a simple call, or showing up when it matters most.

• Encouragers Reflect God’s Heart – True encouragement isn’t just about positivity; it’s about pointing people back to the Source of all hope.  Romans 15:5 calls God the “God who gives endurance and encouragement.”  When we encourage, we reflect God’s nature and remind other of His O and promises.  

Tim Lee’s life and amazing example impacted me and so many in a big way and will continue to do so for years to come!  The following is a recent and real life example of Tim’s impact and influence on me.  In December of 2024 as I was praying and reflecting on the year ahead, I felt inspired by Tim and prompted by the Holy Spirit toward intentionally encouraging others.  This is something I had done from time to time more spontaneously, but not with daily intentionality like my friend Tim.  I set a goal to send 2-3 text encouragements a day to friends and family.  This is what that looks like for me: After my morning rhythm of abiding time (bible reading, journaling, praying) and working out, I pray and think about who I feel led to encourage for the day.  Sometimes it is because I know they are going through a challenging time and other times they are just on my heart and mind.  I then self-record a short video encouragement and text it to them with a brief note.  I have now been doing this for the past 8 months (Jan – August) and have sent nearly 400 individual encouragements that include the 3 elements noted above (Speak Life, Build up, Share God’s Word/heart).  This has become one of my favorite daily activities because it is one of the most fruitful things I get to do each day.  It is amazing how much a simple word of encouragement can impact someone.  It is truly powerful when spoke with love and under the authority of God’s truth.  By the way it only takes my about 5-10 minutes a day.  Surely the highest Eternal Rate of Return (ERR) activity of my day.

Challenge Question:

This week, who can you intentionally encourage with your words, actions, or presence?  Will you take time to spur someone on toward love and good deeds, just as our dear friend Tim so faithfully did!

In honor and memory of Tim Lee, let’s Geaux be an encouragement to those around us today and everyday for God’s Glory!

Word of the Week - Eternal Hope

“Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character, and character, hope.  And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” Romans 5:3-5

Amy and I attended the funeral service of Camille Hensarling Mahtook yesterday in our hometown of Lafayette, LA.  Camille is the daughter and one of five children of our dear and lifelong friends Neil and Rachel Hensarling.  Amy and I grew up with Rachel and met Neil in college when they started dating. Rachel and Amy were roommates their junior and senior year in college, so Neil and I became good friends and have maintained a strong friendship since.  Camille was diagnosed with Ocular Melanoma cancer over 5 years ago during her freshman year at LSU.  Since then, we have walked alongside the Hensarling family for the last 5 years praying fervently and believing that God would heal Camille.  I shared Camille’s story with my “Word of the Week” community when she was first diagnosed and a few times along the way, see “WOW” prior post about Camille.  It has been an amazing journey of faith; both gut wrenching and deeply inspiring. 

Over the past 5 years, I have witnessed Camille and her family walk through this very challenging situation with amazing faith, hope, and love.  They have lived life full of hope, trusting and believing for God’s healing power while at the same time acknowledging the reality and weight of this situation and doing everything possible to beat the cancer.  Camille and her family continued to “live” life to the full making every-day count.  Camille was an amazing beautiful (inside & out) and gifted young woman.  You can read her Obituary in the link above to get the full picture of Camille. I attended Camille’s wedding in January of this year.  It was one of the most loving and moving experiences of my life and so full of faith, hope, and love.

Camille’s funeral yesterday was so impactful to me and all who attended; there was standing room only.  On one hand it was deeply heartbreaking to see her husband Greg, along with her family in the pain of their loss. On the other hand, the faith, hope, and love that was present was overwhelming.  I think everyone there experienced the presence of God in a supernatural way.  The inspiration of how Camille, her husband Greg, and their family have lived by faith and continue to place their hope in God is nothing short of miraculous and deeply inspiring toward the eternal hope of those who trust God as Savior. “God’s love was poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit” yesterday at Camille’s life celebration service.

So how did Camille, Greg and their family and walk with such faith, hope and love through this tremendous challenge:

• Faith - “Faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see” Hebrews 11:1 Camille, Greg and their families walked in faith every day remaining confident with hope even when the circumstances were not lining up.  This is true faith, and it is powerful.

• Hope – “May the God of hope fill you with all joy, and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit”. Romans 15:13 Camille, Greg and their families put their hope and trust in Jesus as the source.  In doing so, they had they experienced supernatural hope and joy through the trial by the power of the Holy Spirit.

• Love – “And now these three things remain: faith, hope, and love.  But the greatest of these is love” 1 Corinthians 13:13 The essence of God is love; therefore, love wins over all.  The love that was manifest in and through Camille, Greg and their family was overwhelming throughout the journey and tangibly present yesterday at the service. I experienced the presence of God’s love through them.

It is hard to understand why this would happen to such an amazing young woman and great family, and why God did not heal her as we all prayed for.  With this difficult question in the forefront, there is no doubt that God has and will continue to use the life of Camille, Greg and her family for His purpose and glory to draw people to Jesus. The miracle is how much God did and will continue to do into eternity through Camille and her 24 short years on this earth.  Our true hope is not in this short life on earth but in our eternal life in heaven.

“Show me, Lord, my life’s end and the number of days; let me know how fleeting my life is. You have made my days a mere handbreadth; the span of my years as nothing before you.  Everyone is but a breath, even those who seem secure.” Psalm 39: 4-5

This has prompted me to reflect on my own life and evaluate if I am living life to the full as if this could be my last day?  Am I living full of faith, hope and love? Today is the only day we are promised, so let us make the most of it and live it full of Faith, Hope and Love like Camille, Greg and their family.

Word of the Week - Idols

“You shall have no other gods before me.  You shall not make for yourself a carved image…You shall not bow down to them or serve them." – Exodus 20:3-5

I spent this weekend at a men’s conference at Lake Martin with a little over 100 men.  The essence of this “Warrior” retreat hosted by Triumph of Hope was geared towards “Awakening men to seek after God’s best and highest purpose for their lives”.  It was a powerful experience with a combination of testimony/talks, prayer, praise and worship, reflection, and a call to confession, repentance, and surrender; with the hope that all attendees would experience personal revival in their walk with Jesus and be freed from anything that may be holding us back from experiencing the fullness of God in our lives.

As I prayed and reflected about my own life and what might threaten or hinder my relationship with Jesus, I felt the holy spirit gently nudge and remind me of the risk of idols. An idol is anything we put in the place of God in our hearts — anything we love, trust, or obey more than Him. It can be a physical object, but more often it’s a desire, ambition, relationship, or pursuit that takes God’s rightful place as first in our affections and allegiance.

Given my stage of life — decades into business leadership, a growing ministry vision, a deep desire to leave a generational impact, and an active role in family and marriage (34 years of marriage, 3 grown children and 8 grandchildren) — some “idols” may be subtle, even good things that could shift into ultimate things if I am not intentional about protecting my heart and soul in these areas.

Here are a few things that God showed me that I need to be aware of quietly taking the throne of my heart:

• Achievement & Legacy – Measuring my worth by what I have built, the size of my influence, or how well my company/ministry will carry forward my name.  The risk here is that I find my identity in accomplishment versus who I am in Christ. “What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?” (Mark 8:36)

• Control & Self-Sufficiency – Desiring everything in my life from business succession to ministry growth to family decisions to align with my vision, plan, and timing.  The risk here is that instead of fully trusting God I am trusting my vision and plan.  “Trust in the Lord with all of your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.” (Proverbs 3:5)

• Reputation & Influence – Valuing the respect, recognition, and perception others have of you more than God’s quiet approval.  The risk here is having my decisions subtly shaped by “how it will be received” rather than “is this what God is calling me to?”  “For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? … If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.” (Galatians 1:10)

• Family & Security – Prioritizing the protection of family comfort, wealth, or lifestyle over the harder calls of obedience. The risk here is avoiding risky steps of faith because they might “disrupt” my family and what feels settled for this stage of my life.  “Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me…” (Matthew 10:37)

• Ministry as Identity – Deriving my joy or self-worth from how well our ministry is received, how big it grows, or how many leaders we influence. The risk here is that the work of God becomes a substitute for the presence of God. “Yet I hold this against you: You have forsaken your first love.” (Revelation 2:4)

Challenge Question:
What important and good things in your life may be competing with Jesus for priority in your heart.  If God took any of these things away tomorrow, how would your heart respond?  Am I willing to put God in His proper place high above everything in my life?

I pray the Holy Spirit will give us the strength and power to identify and remove/reorder potential idols in our lives so we can receive the fullness of what God has for us and live “The life that is truly life” in Christ Jesus! 

Word of the Week - Trust

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will direct your paths and make them straight." – Proverbs 3:5–6

Trust Defined - Merriam-Webster defines trust as “firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, character, or strength of someone or something.”
Biblical trust goes further—it’s complete surrender and reliance on God. It’s believing in His faithfulness, placing confidence in His character, and standing on His promises.

The Tension Between Trust and Control
There’s a fine line between fully trusting and trying to control—especially in our walk with God and our relationships. Most of us naturally want to manage our environments, but the question is: are we limiting our potential—and the potential of those around us—by holding on too tightly?

I’ve wrestled with this my whole life. By God’s grace, I’ve grown, but He keeps showing me there’s more room to surrender. He is our Good Shepherd, trustworthy in every way, who desires the best for us. Faith equals trust.

The Consequences of Half-Trust
When we cling to control, even in the small things, we reveal areas where we aren’t trusting God. Jesus told us plainly: “Do not worry about tomorrow… Each day has enough trouble of its own” (Matthew 6:34). Worry creates anxiety in us—and often in those around us.

Yes, we must take responsibility for our roles, but micromanaging people and circumstances is not healthy or productive. Instead, God calls us to rest in His power and sovereignty—producing power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7).

Trusting Generously
Ephesians 3:17 reminds us that as we trust in Christ, our roots grow deep in His love and keep us strong. Trust grows like a muscle: the more we use it, the more capacity we have for it. As we trust God, He proves Himself faithful—strengthening our faith for the future.

The same is true with people. The more we extend trust, the more trustworthiness we often cultivate in them. Yes, people will disappoint us, but trusting generously over time bears more fruit than controlling relationships. As Paul wrote: “Whoever sows generously will also reap generously” (2 Corinthians 9:6).

So how do we Trust God and others more Generously? 
As I reflect on this in my own life and think about my level of trust toward God and others, it really comes down to how well I know the person I desire to trust.  If I really know someone well and know their character I tend to trust generously.  If I don’t really know them and don’t really know their heart motivations or true character, I am less inclined to trust them generously.  It is also this way with God.  If we really know Him and who He is at His very core, we will be more willing and able to trust Him.  If we just know some things about Him and see Him as a distant God, it will be very difficult to “Trust Him with all of our heart”.  The key to trusting God and others is truly getting to know them.  We get to know God and others by spending time with them by investing in our relationship. This is why it is so important to our faith and relationship with Jesus that we stay connected to the vine of Christ by abiding in Him daily through His word, prayer, and worship.  “My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.” John 10:27

Challenge Question:
Where in your life right now do you need to loosen your grip and trust God—or someone close to you—more generously?

I pray we can all grow in our Trust in God and with others so we can live in the blessing that comes from knowing and trusting God and others!

Word of the Week - Generational

“One generation shall commend your works to another and shall declare your mighty acts.” — Psalm 145:4

Amy and I are keeping four of our eight grandkids this week to allow my daughter Saige and her husband to attend a marriage enrichment retreat at Scott River Lodge (SRL) in northern California.  We attended the same retreat a few years ago and it was life changing for us.  SRL is a couples ministry of  JH Ranch.  Over the years, I have shared much about both and how they have shaped our generational view and approach to marriage, family, and life.   

As the years pass and the number and ages of my grandchildren increase, I become more focused, passionate, and intentional toward building a godly heritage and legacy for my family and business. Over the years I have written several “WOWs” on Heritage, Legacy, and Generational blessing.  Most of these were focused on family, which I believe is most important.

In this week’s “Word of the Week” I am applying the same concepts and principles that I have shared about family to building a company/organization that is truly built to last — not just for the next 5 or 10 years, but for generations. A business with clarity of vision, mission, purpose, and values that remains Kingdom-focused and impact-driven long after the first and founding generation passes the torch.  I have been thinking about this and laying the foundation for this transition process at Founders Advisors for at least a decade.  We initiated the transition process recently by putting an equity purchase plan in place for our next generation of leaders. This was a big step in the process that will likely take decades to complete.  I am excited about the opportunity to be part of building a business that will remain on mission for generations to come with the hope that it will be the gift that keeps on giving long after I am gone.

So how do we build something that lasts 100+ years and honors God in the process? 

Start with a shared God Vision, not just our own - A generational company begins with a Kingdom-centered vision. It’s not just about what we want to build, but about what God wants to accomplish through us. As leaders we must Abide in Christ and stay connected to the Vine of Christ so we can hear from God.  We must lead with a long view — seeing our work as part of His eternal story. We must also work to build deep buy-in from leadership by including them in the process.  This starts with who you hire and their alignment to your vision, mission, values, and purpose. 

“Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.” — Psalm 127:1

Instill and Reinforce Clear Values and Purpose - Culture will drift unless it's consistently and intentionally shaped. We must clearly define, model, and protect values that reflect Christ — values like Servant Leadership, Order/God First, Growth, and Excellence.  We must talk about our values and purpose often and always look for ways to model and reinforce them.  We should include our team, especially our leaders in the process of reinforcing our values and hold each other accountable.

“As iron sharpens iron, so does one person sharpen another.” — Proverbs 27:17

Think and Build Multi-Generationally – We must live with a generational mindset and be thinking about the future.  We don’t just build for today — we build for those who come after us. That means developing leaders, transferring ownership wisely, and staying faithful to the mission. God calls us to think beyond our own timeline. It also means we are putting structures and systems in place that align with our longer-term vision.  This can include board governance structures that can include stewarding the vision, mission, purpose and values of an organization such as a Perpetual Purpose Trust.     

“A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children…” — Proverbs 13:22

Challenge for the Week:
What are you building today that will still matter 100 years from now? What legacy of leadership, culture, and Kingdom impact are you leaving behind?

Let’s build something that lasts — for His glory, and for generations to come.

Word of the Week - Team

“Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil.  For if they fall, one will life up his fellow.  But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!  Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone?  And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him-a threefold cord is not quickly broken.” -Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

The Power and Synergy of Relationships - I love how God designed humanity with a focus on relationship—with Him and with others. This is the heart of the Great Commandment and the essence of our faith: to love God and love others.

In His wisdom, God wove certain principles into creation that are both practical and divine—like the synergy of Team. We all recognize that we’re better together than trying to do life solo. Still, human nature (and often American culture) nudges us toward independence. There’s value in rugged individualism, but it has its limits.

We can only go so far in our own strength. But when the right group of people comes together with a shared mission and God’s blessing, something powerful happens—our gifts are multiplied. That’s the divine synergy of Team: 1 + 1 = 5 (or more!) when God is in the middle of it.

Joy and Protection in Team - Beyond results, life is simply more joyful when we do it with others. Wins are more meaningful, and setbacks more manageable. Even the most gifted among us will face seasons of adversity, discouragement, or temptation. If we’re isolated in those moments, there may be no one to help us up—or hold us accountable.

Proverbs 27:17 reminds us, “As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.” We need teammates who sharpen and protect us. The enemy wants to isolate us, especially when we’re living for God’s Kingdom. Staying connected in honest, vulnerable relationships provides covering—and it gives us the chance to be that covering for others. That’s the beauty of Team.

You Have a Place on God’s Team - Even if you don’t feel part of a team in certain areas, know this: you have a place on God’s Team. The Kingdom is incomplete without you stepping into your role. Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 12 that every part of the Body matters, especially those that may seem hidden or weak.

So, pursue the journey: Know God, Find Freedom, Discover Your Purpose, and Make a Difference. Use your gifts to serve alongside others. There is no doubt that together we are better—God’s glory is most demonstrated through the body working together in the name of Jesus.

Challenge Question:
Are you living life with a team and community perspective as it relates to your vocation and your God purpose, or are you trying to do too much in your own strength?

We are way better together!!!!!!!

Word of the Week - Godly Wisdom

“For wisdom is more precious than rubies, and nothing you desire can compare with her.” - Proverbs 8:11

As Kingdom-minded servant leaders, we’re called to lead with something far more valuable than success, recognition, or wealth—godly wisdom. Proverbs 8:11 reminds us that nothing we desire can compare to her. In a culture that chases personal ambition, quick wins, and worldly “smarts,” God calls us to a different kind of wisdom—godly Wisdom defined as supernatural skill for day-to-day living.

James 3 makes it clear that not all wisdom is the same. There is a wisdom from above—pure, peace-loving, and full of good fruit—and there’s a worldly counterfeit rooted in envy and selfish ambition. One leads to harmony and impact. The other leads to disorder and regret. Here are three consolidated attributes of godly wisdom worth pursuing in our leadership and our lives:

• Pure Hearts and Authentic Lives – Godly wisdom starts in the heart. It’s not just about having the right answers—it’s about being the right person. We’re called to live with integrity, keeping our hearts clean and motives honest. This means guarding what we consume, how we speak, and who we allow to influence us. Authenticity follows purity. We don’t put on masks to impress others—we become the best version of who God created us to be. “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.” (Matthew 5:8)

• Peaceful, Others-Focused Leadership – A wise leader values peace over proving a point. We’re not called to mirror the strife of this world but to model grace, harmony, and humility—even in conflict. Wisdom considers others first, speaks gently, listens well, and serves freely. This kind of leadership isn’t weak—it’s power under control. As Paul said, “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” (Romans 12:18)

• Humble Strength and Gracious Authority – Wisdom yields without losing conviction. A kingdom-hearted leader knows when to speak and when to submit. We admit our wrongs, seek counsel, and show mercy because we’ve been shown mercy. In a world that prizes dominance and being right, godly wisdom elevates humility and grace. “The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice.”(Proverbs 12:15)

The best news is that according to James 1:5 godly Wisdom is available to all of us; we simply have to ask God for it. “If anyone lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.”  So, let’s make it a daily priority to pray and ask God for His wisdom in our lives because godly wisdom doesn’t just make us better leaders—it makes us brighter lights in a dark world. “Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.” (James 3:18)

Challenge Question :  Where in your leadership today are you relying more on worldly wisdom vs. godly wisdom. Are you asking God for Wisdom?

I pray for an impartation of godly Wisdom this week and the fruit that come with Wisdom from above!

Word of the Week - Serve

“For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and give His life as a ransom for many.” – Mark 10:45

Service is simply helping others—but at its best, it’s about adding value to those we serve. I believe service is more than just the task—it’s an attitude. Most of us spend our days serving others through the work we do—whether it’s food, home, tech, or financial services. And we all know the difference between poor, average, and great service—because we’ve experienced the spectrum. We tend to measure service against what we’ve received elsewhere. For example, we don’t expect a fast-food experience to match fine dining—but when someone consistently goes above and beyond, it leaves a mark.

That’s the opportunity: Service is one of the most powerful ways to influence others and make a lasting impact. Just look at Chick-fil-A. They’ve raised the bar and reshaped expectations by doing ordinary things with extraordinary care.  We are following their lead and striving to become the “Gold Standard” M&A Advisory Firm.  We desire to become the “Chick-fil-A” of our industry! 

The Heart of Service
Great service starts inside—with our heart. It’s a privilege to serve others, not a burden. As Jesus said, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” (Acts 20:35) When we see service as a joy, not a job, we begin to reflect Christ more clearly. That’s the essence of the Gospel—Jesus gave everything for us and modeled what it looks like to serve selflessly. As believers, we’re called to follow that example—to show love in practical ways to our families, communities, and workplaces. Often, it’s the simplest acts of kindness that open hearts to the love of Jesus.

Going the Extra Mile
“If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two.” (Matthew 5:41)
Exceptional service isn’t about checking a box—it’s about showing up with a willing spirit. When we exceed expectations—not out of obligation or to be noticed, but from a genuine desire to bless—we create trust, goodwill, and lasting impact. This mindset works in every part of life, especially in business. Going the extra mile is often what turns clients into friends and colleagues into allies. And in God’s Kingdom, the one who serves with humility and joy is highly honored.

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves…” (Philippians 2:3–4)

Walking It Out Together
At Founders Advisors, Service is one of our core values. We strive to serve our clients, our teammates, and our community with excellence. A few times each year—like on MLK Day and during the summer—we intentionally step out together to serve in tangible ways. Just yesterday, I had the opportunity to work alongside over 25 of our team members and their families for a Serve Day.  We were able to complete several projects at Cornerstone Christian School’s middle school campus. Cornerstone is an amazing school that serves over 700 underprivileged kids (k-12), offering students a godly and safe environment for education and much more.  It was a simple but powerful way to be the hands and feet of Jesus—and to live out the heart of service.

I’m grateful for Christ’s example and for the opportunity to serve alongside others. There’s something sacred about coming together to serve—not for recognition, but for impact.

Challenge Question:
What is your heart attitude toward serving others?  Do you see it as an obligation or opportunity?  Do you see serving as an opportunity to influence and impact others for God’s glory?

Have a great week!

Word of the Week - Freedom (Independence Day)

“Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.” — 2 Corinthians 3:17

July 4th – Independence Day – marks the moment in 1776 when America officially declared independence from Great Britain. Despite the turmoil and division we see today, we must still recognize the blessing of living in this great nation and thank God for His hand over the United States these past 247 years. We have much to celebrate.

Our family celebrated Independence Day in Dauphin Island, Colony Cove Community (CCV) this year, a community we recently joined.  CCV has an annual tradition that includes a family parade through the community ending at the flagpole where we all recited the pledge of allegiance and sang the Star-Spangled Banner.  CCV ended the afternoon with BBQ at the pool and fireworks, see parade pic attached.  It was a great and memorable day!

The Price and Value of Freedom:
Beyond the fireworks and festivities, July 4th should be a day of remembrance and gratitude. The freedom we enjoy came at a high price—countless lives sacrificed over generations to secure and defend our rights. As Americans, we are blessed to live in a land that values individual liberty. The Declaration of Independence boldly proclaims, “all men are created equal” and “endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights,” including life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. These truths must not be taken for granted.

The Responsibility of Freedom:
Freedom also comes with responsibility. President Reagan warned that it’s never more than one generation from extinction and must be fought for and preserved. Spiritually, Christ paid the ultimate price for our eternal freedom—freedom from sin and death. “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free” (Gal. 5:1). But this freedom isn't about independence from God—it’s about dependence on Him. In John 15:5, Jesus reminds us that we must abide in Him to bear fruit. Through Him, we are freed not for selfish gain but to love and serve others (Gal. 5:13).

A Grateful Prayer:
Lord, thank You for the freedoms we enjoy—freedom of belief, worship, prayer, and speech. Help us steward them well and honor the sacrifices made to secure them. Most of all, thank You for the freedom we have through Christ’s sacrifice, granting us eternal life and peace.

Challenge Question:
How are you actively using your freedom—in both your country and your faith—to serve others, honor God, and advance His kingdom?

God Bless you and God Bless America, the land of the Free!!

Word of the Week - Friendship

“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.” – Proverbs 17:17

I just returned from my second trip to the Amazon Basin of Brazil fishing for Peacock Bass.  I shared the experience with six friends and it was unforgettable. We had an amazing experience and caught some really nice Peacock Bass, see pics attached. But more than catching big Peacock Bass, which is an experience I highly recommend for any serious angler, what made the trip meaningful was sharing it with godly brothers.

Together we experienced beauty and adventure, celebrated each other’s wins, shared our fears and stories around the dinner table, prayed for one another, and ministered to the camp staff. That kind of rich, spiritual camaraderie is a glimpse of what God intends for His people—the joy of deep, biblical friendship. It’s part of “the life that is truly life.”

True Friendship
Few things in life are more fulfilling than solid, Christ-centered friendships. A friend is someone you trust, enjoy, and love without conditions. They don’t flinch at your flaws or fade in tough times. They create a safe place for honesty and growth. And the best friends? They’ll tell you the truth—even when it’s hard. “As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.” – Proverbs 27:17

Friendship in Adversity
Life will bring trials. Jesus said, “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart, I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33) When those moments come, godly friends help carry the burden. They offer presence, prayer, perspective, and perseverance. “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” – Galatians 6:2

What Does a Real Friend Look Like?
True friends love you at your worst and call you toward your best. They forgive quickly, speak well of you, and show up when it counts. “Encourage one another and build each other up.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:11

Choosing Your Inner Circle
Scripture reminds us to be discerning with close friendships. “Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.’” – 1 Corinthians 15:33. Look for friends who share your values, your faith, and if possible, your mission. Shared interests like fishing or golf are great, but alignment in purpose and beliefs runs deeper.

Being a Great Friend
The best way to have great friends is to be one. Live out the golden rule. Be present, loyal, encouraging, and Christlike. “Two are better than one... If either falls, one can help the other up.” – Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

Challenge Question:
Are you intentionally building and investing in the kind of friendships that help you become the man God created you to be—and are you that kind of friend to others?

Encouragement:
Take a minute to text one or two of your good friends today and let them know you love and appreciate them and value their friendship!

Have a great week and blessed Independence Day!  God Bless America!

Word of the Week - Father

“Our Father in Heaven…” – Matthew 6:9

The Power of a Father’s Influence
The impact of a father is profound—especially in shaping faith. Consider these statistics: when a child is first in the family to find Christ, only 5% of families follow. When the mother is first, 22% follow. But when the father is first, 93% of families follow. That’s the unique and God-given influence of a father in leading a home spiritually.

A father’s role—protector, provider, teacher, encourager, example—is deeply formative. But the most essential gift a father gives is unconditional love. Love is the key, for as 1 Peter 4:8 says, “Love covers a multitude of sins.”

Knowing the Unconditional Love of Our Abba Father “A father doesn’t tell you he loves you, he shows you.” – a great Dad. I’m blessed to have a father whose love for me was never in question. My dad’s unconditional love for me, combined with Jesus’ healing in my life, has allowed me to fully embrace the love of God the Father. Now, as a dad to three amazing daughters, two sons by marriage, and eight wonderful grandkids, I count fatherhood as the most joyful and fulfilling role of my life. Like my own dad, I’ve tried my best—but I’ve also made mistakes and unintentionally hurt my kids along the way. 

That’s why I’m so thankful for our perfect Father in Heaven—“gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love” (Psalm 103:8). God gives us the model for fatherhood, and by His grace, we can sow love and blessing into the generations after us. “Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from Him” (Psalm 127:3).

Our Eternal Father
No matter your story with your earthly father—good, painful, or absent—God is your eternal Father. Through Jesus and the power of the Holy Spirit, He longs to restore and heal what is broken. He is the Good, Good Father who leaves the 99 to find the one. “As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear Him” (Psalm 103:13).

“And He will turn the hearts of fathers to their children and the hearts of children to their fathers” (Malachi 4:6).

Challenge Question:
How is your view of God shaped by your relationship with your earthly father—and are you willing to let God redefine “Father” through His perfect love for you?

Happy Father’s Day!

Word of the Week - Sabbath Rest

“Jesus said to them, ‘The Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath. So the Son of Man is Lord even of the Sabbath.’” – Mark 2:27-28

I am just returning from a week of family vacation with Amy and our daughter Saige and family (4 of our grandkids), see pics attached.  We spent a week down at our place in Dauphin Island watching sunrises and sunsets and operating at a much slower pace than normal.  I also had the opportunity to spend time doing one of my favorite things, fishing for speckled trout and redfish on the coast.  This has been a passion of mine since I was a young boy.  It was a fun and refreshing week, and even though I was active fishing, cooking, and playing with my grandkids, I feel rested and refreshed.  I'm reminded how God blesses and speaks to us through Sabbath rest when we step away from our daily work.

The Sabbath is often misunderstood. Many associate it only with Jewish custom or as a rigid rule from the Old Covenant. Others reduce it to just going to church. But Jesus clearly tells us the Sabbath was made for us—a gift for our good and health.

Since God created us, He knows what we need. In Exodus 20:8–11, He models Sabbath by resting on the seventh day of creation. Observing the Sabbath affirms that God is both Creator and Sustainer. If He rested, how much more do we need it?

Taking a Sabbath is also an act of faith. If we trust God as our provider, we can rest in Him. While we are called to work diligently and with excellence (Colossians 3:23), we are not machines. God made us for fellowship with Him and with others. He wants us to be whole—spiritually, physically, mentally, and emotionally. Even if we love our work, we need space to recharge.

Sabbath is about starting your week from a place of rest and trust, not depletion. It’s a rhythm of pausing work to refocus on God, relationships, and renewal. While Sunday is the Sabbath for many, the actual day can vary. For example, pastors often choose another day for rest.

My Story: For years, this wasn’t easy for me. But over the last 15 years, I’ve made Sabbath a weekly priority—from 5:30 p.m. Saturday to 5:30 p.m. Sunday. I intentionally unplug from work, emails, and business tasks unless there’s an emergency. It hasn’t always been easy, especially since I love being productive, but it’s been a huge blessing. I genuinely believe this practice has fueled my health, joy, and even business success.

If you’re not currently observing Sabbath, I encourage you to try it—one 24-hour period each week. Use it to rest, worship, connect with family, enjoy God’s presence, and do things that refresh you. Take a walk, fish, play golf, have a great meal, spend quality time with loved ones, or simply be still.

Summer is also a good time of year to take an extended Sabbath (vacation) and get away from your work for a week or two.  Taking time away from our work can really be a refreshing process and give us new energy and perspective. 

Challenge Question:
If you are not doing so already, what would it look like for you to intentionally set aside one day each week to rest, reconnect with God, and recharge—trusting that He can do more with six days of work than you can with seven?  Try it for a few weeks and see what you find!

Word of the Week - Be Refreshed

“The Lord is my Shepherd… He refreshes my soul….” – Psalm 23

I hope your summer is off to a great start! I am on family vacation this week enjoying time with my family and grandkids down at Dauphin Island, AL. I love summer and the opportunity to slow down and enjoy some of these special times with family and friends.

Our Need to Be Refreshed
The universal law of entropy is always at work in our world and lives, causing disorder, uncertainty, and fragmentation. It especially creeps in during seasons when we drift out of rhythm—like summer—making us more prone to apathy. So, how do we oppose this force and find refreshment in God? By connecting with Him through His Spirit. He is the God of Refreshing, Renewal, Redemption—He is the God of Re-everything! God designed us to need Him, so He alone can overcome the entropy of this world and bring us true refreshment.

Refresh Your Mind
Let’s be honest—our culture and the world’s patterns distort our thinking. We’re all susceptible to believing things that aren’t true or aligned with God’s Word. That’s why Romans 12:2 urges us to “not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” If we reject the world’s patterns and turn to God’s ways, He promises to renew our minds and align our thinking with Christ. Renewing our minds in Him gives us peace, hope, spiritual clarity, and a deeper purpose aligned with God’s will.

Refresh Your Strength
Similar to entropy, our physical and spiritual strength fades with time. Life wears us out. But 2 Corinthians 4:16 reminds us that while our bodies are wasting away, inwardly we’re being renewed daily. Isaiah 40:28-31 promises that those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength and soar like eagles. God is the only source of this renewing strength—“The joy of the Lord is our strength” (Nehemiah 8:10). Daily pursue Him, and He will empower you.

Refresh Your Soul
Our soul is the wellspring of life—where we dream, feel deeply, and long for meaning. Only God can truly fill that longing and make us whole in Christ. Psalm 23 paints a beautiful picture: “The Lord is my shepherd... He refreshes my soul.” He invites us to give Him our heart, let Him shepherd us, and drink from His living water. When we do, our souls overflow, and we can’t help but share His love with others. This is the abundant life Christ promised!

There is so much to love and enjoy about summer to include the fun travel adventures and slower pace, but let’s remember the ultimate source of refreshing is Jesus. I pray we will maintain our priorities of abiding in Jesus this summer so we will be refreshed as we enjoy this wonderful season remaining connected to the vine of Christ!

Challenge Question:
What’s one way you can intentionally seek refreshment in Christ today and pour that refreshment into someone else?

Word of the Week - Memorial Day - Remember

“This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.  Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.” John 15:12-13

Greetings from Rwanda, Africa!  My daughter Bella and I are in Rwanda and spent yesterday morning trekking Silver Back Gorillas in the Verunga Mountains of Northern Rwanda, see pics attached.  It is quite a unique experience that was special to share with my 20-year old daughter Bella.  Bella and I first visited Rwanda together 10 years ago and at the time she was too young to do the Gorilla Trek.  She is now back with me on her 3rd trip to Rwanda and has made plans to stay here and serve in a missional internship this summer with Bridge2Rwanda, a ministry I have served on the board of for over a decade.  Rwanda is an amazing country with a miraculous redemption story https://compassionrwanda.com/after-genocide-an-astonishing-story-of-forgiveness-and-redemption/. 

Bella and I visited the Kigali Genocide Memorial on Friday, and it was a staunch reminder of the fragility of life and the amazing sacrifice that so many people have made.  It was also a clear reminder of the importance of “Remembering” what happened to honor all the people that lost their lives and to do our very best to ensure that these terrible tragedies don’t repeat themselves. 

This Memorial Day weekend, we are prompted to remember something that can be hard to comprehend: the ultimate act of love—laying down one’s life for others. This is the sacrifice of our fallen service men and women who paid the ultimate price for our freedom. I've heard conflicting views on this over the years, but I believe it’s important not to see these brave souls as mere victims. Each fallen soldier has a unique story, but every one of them is a hero who gave their life for a greater cause.

Our struggle to understand this comes from how we view sacrifice, especially one that seems so final and without an obvious reward. In a world focused on gaining and achieving, the idea of giving up everything—even for people you may not know—is hard to grasp. That’s why remembering the fallen soldier can feel uncomfortable. Yet, it’s essential. This is the only way we stay willing to do what’s needed to protect our freedom. May we never forget!

On this Memorial Day, we remember the 1.2 million men and women who gave their lives for our country. It’s a sobering reminder of freedom’s price and how fortunate we are to live in the “land of the free” because of their sacrifice. I’m deeply humbled and grateful for this reality. Click the link to watch a short 5-minute video, "Path of the Warrior" as a tribute to their memory.

In a similar way, I’m even more grateful for God’s ultimate act of love: coming to earth as Jesus, our Messiah, and dying for our sins so we can have eternal freedom. “For it is for Freedom that Christ set us free” (Galatians 5:1). “You, my brothers, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature; rather, serve one another in love” (Galatians 5:13). Let us remember what God has done for us through the Cross. May His sacrifice motivate us to love and serve others. Lord, help us never forget the price of our freedom as Americans, and even more so, the price You paid for our eternal freedom. May we fully receive Your love and sacrifice.

Jesus our Messiah who Died to give us Life and Freedom both now and for Eternity, the ultimate Sacrifice.

Word of the Week - Spiritual Order

"May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through.  May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.” - 1 Thes 5:23

God created us in His image as triune beings—body, soul, and spirit. Unlike animals, we are eternal beings with the ability to choose between walking with God or following our own desires. When disconnected from God, we are naturally inclined toward fleshly desires that lead to spiritual death: “There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death” (Proverbs 14:12). Understanding the purpose of these three dimensions helps us navigate our faith journey.

Body/Flesh – “Those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires." — Romans 8:5 Our physical body, with its senses—sight, touch, taste, hearing, and smell—is where desires are felt most intensely. Left unchecked, these desires can take control, leading to chaos and self-destruction. The enemy thrives in this realm, luring us away from God. Discipline is key to mastering the flesh; practices like fasting, exercise, and surrounding ourselves with healthy environments help us stay aligned with God's will.

Soul/Mind – “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind..." — Romans 12:2 The soul is the seat of our mind, will, and emotions—the part of us that thinks, feels, and chooses. Our thoughts and emotions are heavily influenced by what we consume and who we surround ourselves with. “Whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” (Philippians 4:8). Feeding our mind with truth from God’s Word allows us to walk in alignment with God's purpose.

Spirit/God Within Us - "For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh." — Galatians 5:17 Our spirit is the eternal part of us that connects with God. When we are born of the Spirit, we are awakened to new life in Christ. This rebirth often requires dying to our old ways, allowing the Spirit to thrive. In this new life, we access God’s power to overcome the flesh and live victoriously. Jesus said, “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” (John 15:5). True life flows from staying connected to Jesus.

Living from the Inside Out - Our natural tendency is to live from the outside in—reacting to our senses and emotions. But the abundant life Jesus promised is experienced when we live from the inside out, prioritizing our spirit's connection with God. When we feed our spirit through prayer, scripture, worship, and fellowship, we become Spirit-led, gaining victory over the soul and flesh. This Spirit-led life produces fruit: “The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” (Galatians 5:22–23).

Challenge Question:
Are you living from the inside out, led by the Spirit and bearing spiritual fruit? What steps can you take today to prioritize your spirit's connection with God, so that your soul and body follow His lead?

I pray we will experience the fullness of the abundant life in Spirit, Soul, and Body as we live from the Inside-out in Christ…

Word of the Week - Motherly Love

“As one whom his mother comforts, so I will comfort you; you shall be comforted in Jerusalem”.  Isaiah 66:13

Love of a mother – Have you ever contemplated the amazing innate love of a mother?  How a mother’s love is so natural and pure that it is hard to put into words.  There is something so very special about the love of a mother.  There is no doubt that God designed woman with an amazing motherly instinct.  It has been scientifically proven that a woman’s body and brain change when they get pregnant and become mothers.  There is no love greater than a mother’s love except the love of God.  A mother’s “Love is patient and kind. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes and always perseveres” 1 Corinthians 13:4&7

Motherly love is yet another way God shows His love for us – I think God’s design for life and family is so amazing and perfect.  There are so many different ways He could have brought human beings into this world and developed them into adults, but He chose to deliver us into the world through our mothers.  As we all know, life is formed as a man and woman come together to sow the seed of life through a pretty amazing process, which is made holy and sacred through the sacrament of marriage.  The process of a mom getting pregnant, and a baby being formed inside a mother is really a miracle in and of itself.  Then the mother has a 9 month period of pregnancy where she carries the baby in her womb until the baby is born.  I have 3 daughters and witnessed all of them being born and it was definitely the most special experiences of my life, a true miracle.  I can only imagine what it must feel like to carry and birth the baby, but as am man I will never know. What an amazing privilege and sacrifice for moms.  After going through such an intense process, it is no-wonder why they are so attached and connected to their babies/children.  I think we would all agree that a mother’s love for her children is an amazing godly blessing that is yet another way that God shows His unconditional love for us.  He is the One who designed this perfect process. “For You formed my innermost parts; You knit me together in my mother’s womb.  I will give thanks and praise to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Wonderful are Your works, And my soul knows it very well.” Psalm 139:13-14

Unconditional and all-consuming love  – It is apparent to me that most mothers possess deep unconditional love for their children no matter the circumstances.  Children don’t have to earn maternal love it just comes naturally and it is always there.  As the number of children increases, a mother has amazing ability to show and give love to all of her children and make them all feel uniquely loved.  There is a special feeling of love and security that comes from a mother that we can only get from mothers and God.  Motherly instinct is so critical as it is what is needed to give a baby what it needs to survive and thrive as it comes into this big world needy and defenseless. Maternal love is of divine nature and something we should deeply cherish and all value.  Only God’s love emulates this special dimension of love. 

I have personally experienced this with my own mother Lillie who loved me unconditionally and was always there for me, even at my worst.  I lost my mom 22 years ago and there are very few days that go by that I don’t think about her and how much I love and miss her, see picture of my mom below with my eldest daughter Mary Kathryn from over 33 years ago.  I am so grateful for my mom who loved me so well, she had an amazing influence on me becoming the person I am today. 

I have also witnessed my wife Amy’s unconditional and all-consuming love for our 3 daughters over the years and have always been amazed at the depth of her love and connection with all of our daughters.  It is truly a beautiful thing that I deeply value but don’t fully understand as a man.  Now I am watching my two eldest daughters Mary Kathryn and Saige birth, raise and mother our 8 grandkids 😊, and it is truly amazing to see the depth of their love and sacrifice towards their children, our amazing grandchildren.  This is a view from another angle that helps me see an appreciate the love and significance of mothers and their roles in our lives.

I have often heard it said that a mother has one of the most significant jobs on earth and I think we would all agree that there are few roles more important than that of a mother.  Billy Graham once said “Only God Himself fully appreciates the influence of a Christian mother in molding of character in her children”

Happy Mother’s Day to you mom, Mamie, Amy, Mary Kathryn and Saige and to all you mother’s.  We are so thankful for you and all you do!!!!!