Word of the Week - Friendship
“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.” – Proverbs 17:17
I just returned from my second trip to the Amazon Basin of Brazil fishing for Peacock Bass. I shared the experience with six friends and it was unforgettable. We had an amazing experience and caught some really nice Peacock Bass, see pics attached. But more than catching big Peacock Bass, which is an experience I highly recommend for any serious angler, what made the trip meaningful was sharing it with godly brothers.
Together we experienced beauty and adventure, celebrated each other’s wins, shared our fears and stories around the dinner table, prayed for one another, and ministered to the camp staff. That kind of rich, spiritual camaraderie is a glimpse of what God intends for His people—the joy of deep, biblical friendship. It’s part of “the life that is truly life.”
True Friendship
Few things in life are more fulfilling than solid, Christ-centered friendships. A friend is someone you trust, enjoy, and love without conditions. They don’t flinch at your flaws or fade in tough times. They create a safe place for honesty and growth. And the best friends? They’ll tell you the truth—even when it’s hard. “As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.” – Proverbs 27:17
Friendship in Adversity
Life will bring trials. Jesus said, “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart, I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33) When those moments come, godly friends help carry the burden. They offer presence, prayer, perspective, and perseverance. “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” – Galatians 6:2
What Does a Real Friend Look Like?
True friends love you at your worst and call you toward your best. They forgive quickly, speak well of you, and show up when it counts. “Encourage one another and build each other up.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:11
Choosing Your Inner Circle
Scripture reminds us to be discerning with close friendships. “Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.’” – 1 Corinthians 15:33. Look for friends who share your values, your faith, and if possible, your mission. Shared interests like fishing or golf are great, but alignment in purpose and beliefs runs deeper.
Being a Great Friend
The best way to have great friends is to be one. Live out the golden rule. Be present, loyal, encouraging, and Christlike. “Two are better than one... If either falls, one can help the other up.” – Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
Challenge Question:
Are you intentionally building and investing in the kind of friendships that help you become the man God created you to be—and are you that kind of friend to others?
Encouragement:
Take a minute to text one or two of your good friends today and let them know you love and appreciate them and value their friendship!
Have a great week and blessed Independence Day! God Bless America!